Did i say the wrong thing, was i wrong?

  • ♥kHarIsMa♥
    18 years ago

    i have a babys dad, that has a girlfriend or whatever...and hes been doin nothin but doin me wrong, being completely heartless...and finally today (on mothers day) we got in an arguement and he drew the last straw..pushed me to the edge...and i said i want him out of my sons life and mine...he never really helps me anyways and doesnt help me support his son.. he sees him and all but doesn finantially help me.. but was i in the wrong for sayin that? was it better to let him go? what should i do? what should i have done? i need help...i dont kno if i made the wrong decision or the right? please help me!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Financial responsibilities arent the only responsibilities of a parent. You guys need to find some common ground and figure out how to get along for the sake of your young son, soon enough he will need to have his father figure in his life and neither of you should hold that back from him.
    I understand your frustrations though you have every right to be angry I would be too given your situation. What you need to do is start acting like an adult and like a mother, a parent by stopping before you say things you'll end up regretting. sleep on it, discuss your feelings in the morning or at a later time when your not expressing hate, anger or rage in the heat of the moment. Set a good example Kharisma you'll be fine...just do what you think is best for your son...

  • CiNDY iS BAkk
    18 years ago

    I gotta agree with her^^! She just said what I wanted to say! Yeah you should just do what you think is good for you and most importantly..your son! Make the right choice! Take care and lots of love!
    ~*~Cindy~*~