i need help i dont know what to do

ok im dating this guy and i really like him well i just found out this other guy that i really really like, was going to ask me out on my bday well i started dating this guy right before my bday and i just found out that the other guys was going to ask me out and now i dont know wat to do. well the other guy i like has a girlfriend and well before i started dating this guy i thought that they would never break up so thats y i started dating this guy but he was going to break up with her to go out with me and he didnt because i started dating te guy, and i really really like this other guys, but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend by breaking up with him. and everyone has a different theory about wat i should do, one of my friends just said to follow my heart and my other friend tells me to stay with my boyfriend, i could really use some advice on this. please help

well sounds to me like you are kinda in a mess. i've been in similar situations. what i would do is set some time aside for myself one night and think about eveything and what you really want and which guy would give that to you.

don't stay with someone if you don't like him as much as somebody else, but think about it very well because most of the times when you have made a decision like this one you can't go back.. I agree that you should take some time for yourself and straighten out your mind.

im realy confused

you need to work out who you like the best, this other guy or your boyfriend.
if you decide to dump ur boyf, then r u sure that this other guy likes you enough to end his relationship?
it seems to me that sticking with ur boyf mite b a safer option but that mite not mke u happy.
if u r truly confuzed then u need 2 take a time out from both boys and that mite involve dumping ur boyf, im sorry i cant b any more helpful but you need to make ur own choice.

ps, if ya need 2 tlk sum more then just send me a private message n gud luck!!!

Calm down this is not the end of the world.
To question this situation, means that you like the 'other guy'. Becareful not to confuse your real feelings, with the excitment of being wanted. Attention is wonderful and i know i personally look at people differently when i find out they have feelings for me. I don't know all the ins and outs, but i think this is extreamly messy, and maybe your best to say with your current boyfriend. i mean it's safe, you know where you stand. On the other hand this really really will niggle away at the back of your mind.

IDEA!

Talk to your current boyfriend, tell him your feelings, it'll be hard and i'm not sure what real good it will do, but your honesty will be appreciated when and if you decide.

good luck!!!!

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ok thank you for all ur help, i really appericate it. just to let you know i did break up with my boyfriend ans he was fine with it...well at least he acted like he was... the guy i like says hes going to break up with his girlfriend but if he doesnt thats ok and if he does thats awesome...but anyways thanks for all the help, it really did help alot
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