Am i normal?? please help.

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    im a 13 year old girl and im very attracted to guys, yet i always have fanatsies of doing stuff with girls. I get just as excited about my fantasies with girls as i do boys, but sometimes more with girls. like when i see girls everyday i definetly never think about it, but when i see older women like 25+ i just think.. i wonder if shes good in bed. i know for girls its normal to have fantasies with the same gender, but im not sure and i want to know if im considered "bi" or a "lesbian"
    i want to only like guys but i want to experience with girls for fun

  • Shelly
    18 years ago

    im 13 too. && i do the same thing. as far as i know, its normal. i mean everyone ive dated have been guys. but everything you said is exactly how i think sometimes. for now, im sure its normal. so just hang in there. no ones perfect.

    i hope i helped at least a little.

    with love,
    shelly

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Your normal dont worry your just hitting puberty and discovering your sexuality dont get obsessed or upset over it just let nature take its course - there is NOTHING wrong with you.

  • HisBbyGrl
    18 years ago

    Its normal, you are hitting puberty... your gonna react like that. And whether you figure out if your bi or lesbian or straight, it dont matter... that's your choice, no one can be perfect...Thats who you are, so dont let anyone tell you that you cant be the person you want to be.

  • krysten
    18 years ago

    you're bi curious its that simple
    good luck and don't be afraid it may be normal

  • piglet911
    18 years ago

    i think it is normal to explore different sexes. they say your teenage years is when you find the real you so if you explore you might find what you want in life you never know but you are definately normal

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    thanks for all the help
    something off my chest
    and im happy its normal!!