I need advice (Again)

  • GirlAnachronism
    18 years ago

    I am back, and hurt....I took the advice you other people gave me, and thanks for that too...But asking him out again didnt work. I asked him and his responde was "Oh ummm ahh...Ill tell you later." He didnt tell me. I found out for myself. I saw him hug his Ex which is his girlfriend again. He also makes points to run past me to go hug her. And I dont even know why hes with her...When we were together he told me, "Everytime I was with you when I was going out with her, I didnt think of her. I thought of you..I love you because you are different. And she's the same as everyone else." But If thats true, then why is he with her? I hurt so much. I cant get over it. Please help...Tell me what to do...

  • Ele
    18 years ago

    i hate to say it but it seems hes not interested and i recomend you dont think too much about why hes with her cuz youll just drive yourself crazy over it. sorry but its just best to move on and find someone who wont lie to you about their feelings, maybe this guy lied about how he felt about his ex cuz he didnt want you to know he still had feelings for her

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    well, it seem's like he's not interested anymore...if he told you that stuff then it seem's like he was lying just to get you to fall even deeper in love with him and look what he did now..he left you heart broken! it's time to kick this jerk to the curb. he doesnt deserve you, and you definetly deserve better..you took a risk and got hurt, well instead of thinking he loves you, now you know the truth. its time to move on. good luck and hopefully i helped.
    =)

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    He's just like my ex. They say things like that even if it's not true. He probably wasn't over her and was trying not to show it. You will someone else. There are guys out there that are different. Guys that fall for the girls who are different. I think you should move on. It was a bad decision he made and now you have opportunity to make a good one and move on. Good luck.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    thing is alot of blkes do this.. they hurt us right and some dont want u but they dont want amyone else to have you!!

    so they try andkeep u interested in tem.. umm its sit an it hurts big tyle.. if he wants to be with eher then let him be with her! youllget over it n u know what some ppl are eant to come and go in out lives because they are just an experience... not for keeps n i think he was jus an experience...

  • Sandie
    18 years ago

    if u want my opinion just let him go. he's not worth it. If he wont take u back move on and find someone who really cares about u. Dont let him ruin ur life. ur way better then he is.

  • Cryss
    18 years ago

    there is someone so much better out there for you. move on. I kno it hurts, believe me I know.. but its time to find someone that will treat you how you should be treated, and not lie to you..ect. you kno.

  • Kat
    18 years ago

    move on...he's not worth it

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    He really isn't.

    Think about it...if he told you these things...and then turned around and got back with his ex, think about the things that he's telling her about you....the same stuff.

    I had a guy like that. He was a jerk, and I really don't like him anymore. My fiancee would love nothing more then to kick his butt, but that's not going to happen. Lol...some guys are just jerks and know what to say to make a girls heart melt and then use that to get in their pants like said before, or just to make themselves look good and drive us NUTS. Lol.

    Not all guys are like that though.....drop him and find someone that isn't like that.

  • limp
    18 years ago

    Well for starters, to avoid getting "hurt" you shouldn't even date at 13. ;\