HOW DO YOU KNOW when...??

  • Kaylee
    18 years ago

    I was sexually assaulted. People handle it different ways. I'm ashamed to say I was terrible upset after it happened but not too long later I was laughing and joking around with the guy only to become really depressed and angry. For me it's hard to talk about in person to people, as in people I know and who know me, and I just become so quiet and withdrawn that I can't get all the details out but then again people handle it differently and your friend might be the type that can. But press for specifics. If she is lying she can get in a lot of trouble.

  • CiNDY iS BAkk
    18 years ago

    I was sexually assulted too. I mean it was so hard to hide all my feelings! To tell you the truth--don't hate me-- I was acting like your friend! But I usually told my closest friends and guys too. But I knew when to shut my mouth and finish the conversation or wait to tell my friends later, but like not in front of everyone! I am going to agree with Kaylee. Many people handle it in different ways!

    Cindy

  • Megann Lee
    18 years ago

    As Kaylee and Cindy said..People handle it in diffrent ways..

    Like when I was sexually assualted..I shut up..became less talkitive, and what not, yet went on like nothing happend and I didn't want to tell ANYONE..I felt as it was my fault, as do I still..even though I sorta of openly talk about it with my closest friends, it still bothers me when someone brings something up about Rape or being Sexually assualted, when they make fun of it..I don't like talking about it- even right now..So I hope you'll find out if she is alright..

    Much Love, Kina.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Who are you too judge in reality ? Theres only one true judge and thats God...keep your opinions to yourself I think is the best idea.
    Worry about your own backyard sweety...

  • Kaylee
    18 years ago

    Always take it seriously though just in case. If someone says that it happened you should take it as a fact.

  • Megann Lee
    18 years ago

    Yet again I agree with Kaylee.