Am I the other women?

Okay here is what is happening...The guy I like is calling me and talking to me on-line ect. but then today i found out he had a grilfriend...and she came up to me and started yelling at me...and said that he was cheating on her...and she knew it was me...i dont think this was cheating...all that i have ever done with him is hug him...and i hug like everyone...and the sad part is the girl was supposed to be a really good friend of mine...how could she think i would do that...but back to my question do you guys think I am the other women?

Thanks
Emma

I think that to the guy your just a friend but the girlfriend thinks somethings going on... ask the guy what he feels it is that might help

well...the guy used to like me before...he started dating her...i had a boyfriend at the time...so yeah that wasnt gonna work...

yes you are, if he cant be faithful to his current squeeze what makes you think he can be faithful and wont be messing around with some other girl on you....leopards cant change there spots

if you dont think anything is goin on, then how could he really be cheating? i mean, all friends hug, itz not like you are kissing or anything.. i would try and get things straight with his girlfriend/your friend.. hehe.. good luck!
jessy xox

thanks for all the help...

Emma

^^good point....

^^ Use a dictionary when writing. Don't blame it on typos.

I agree with Sluvvy .. because he is so funny!

If you are indeed the other girl, then there is a problem here.. mainly, his girlfriend. She sounds like she's a rather jealous/posessive person. Talk to the guy, ask him what the hell is going on, and if this girl was orginally your friend, then talk to her aswell, and explain the situation, that you're only friend, etc.
And unless the guy has said to you, "I like you more than a friend, I want to be with you" he hasn't done anything wrong either.

I was in the same position as you except I was like your friend. My girlfriend would talk to some guy on the phone and online alot. She said they were just friends but i went all crazy and almost killed that guy. She explained it to me though that he was suicidal and she only talks to him so he wont kill himself. I think i just overreacted because i am a really jealous person and maybe your friend is too, so to answer your question no your not the other person.