Boyfriend Trouble

  • TearsLeftUndried
    18 years ago

    OK. so I'm going out with this AmAzInG guy, right? But, schools almost over (4 days left) and we're going to different high schools. I really love him A LOT, but if I hold on longer it's just gonna be harder to let him go, you know?? I just need help.....

    ~*~Elisha~*~

  • Kelc
    18 years ago

    well different high schools doesn't mark the end of a relationship. if you need an excuse to let him go than use it but if you really love him, nothing should stop you. you'll just have to set aside time for you guys. i know its hard but love isn't supposed to be easy. you have to work at it.

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    agree

  • Megann Lee
    18 years ago

    I agree too.

  • Cee.Cee
    18 years ago

    my bofriend lied and said his mom made him dump me but i just found out it was cuz he liked this girl and is denieing everything during the 6 mounths we were d8ing *Cheyanne*

  • TearsLeftUndried
    18 years ago

    thanks ya'll I really appreciate it...and I'm sorry Cheyanne about that...that really sux and he souldn't have done that...but yea...it's just that he was like..."It's gonna be hard to keep a relationship like this going if we're at different schools." and I was like...well. obviously he doesn't even wanna try....so..idk..i just gave him his 1st kiss today..so I kinda can't break up with him now...

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    the first kiss is the most memorable.. maybe he'll think not to, he may only say that as a concern but put ur part in it and dont let any break up happen, cause if u feel a lot for him don't let go of him so easily. love doesn't matter the distance cuz its the matter of the heart. i could go on and on but im sure u kinda got my point lol.. aight tc peace

  • TearsLeftUndried
    18 years ago

    ya I got it...lol....it's just...i have no idea how we're gona keep this going...like i said he made it kinda obvious that this isn't gonna work. He even told my friend that he think we'll break up sometime in the summer....so yea...I don't think he even wants to try..which really makes me sad....and i just don't know what the point is...if he's planning for us to break up in the summer...then..y are we even doing this...ya know??

  • FLIMPPER
    18 years ago

    My bf and I dont go to the same school , but to be in a relationship there is a certain level of trust you must have with him whether you go to the same school or not me nn j dont go to the same school but we still see each other not everyday but we talk and I think us not going to the same school has helped us buuild trust in the relationship...

    [conscious]:.

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Well I live 300 miles apart from my boyfriend...lol...and when we got together, he was still in high school and I was starting college. Granted it was at a community college so I still got to see him everyday, but still. We didn't go to the same school, we never did, and now we're living apart. It's hard as hell I'll tell you that. But since you guys are still living by eachother...it will make it a lot easier. If he doesn't seem interested in it, then I'm sorry...but it's not going to work. If you guys are going to be in high school then...well....get ready to meet a lot of new guys, and have some fun. You're young....enjoy it!!

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    I serousily just think you should talk to him about the whole thing and come up with some solutions together so you both know what each other is thinking about. This will work the best and its the best way to find out answers you know. lots of love and luck!!!!!
    Nichole

  • piglet911
    18 years ago

    if i were you i would just dump him on good terms and tell him how you feel before the last day so that your last day with him wont be fighting or upsetting.

  • TearsLeftUndried
    18 years ago

    This is an e-mail that he sent to me Wednesday....it kinda made me rethink everything..and now..I don't know if it's even worth trying to "save" this relationship...idk..but THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR HELP!!! I really appreciate it bunches!!!

    hey..... i was thinking

    even though we are going to different schools next year
    I still think we can try and date each other
    it just doesn't seem right to have to just break up just for that reason
    i'm willing to try, r u??
    I just love you too much just to break up with you b/c of that retarded reason

    sorry this is kinda random

    I love you