What do you feel when your heart breaks?

I know I can no longer speak... my voice becomes shivery and I just wanna cry... inside i feel so sick, and I get all confused and listen to sad songs.. how do u all feel when this happens?

I FEEL LIKE THAT ALL THE TIME...BECAUSE OF MY SONS DAD..BUT ALL YOU CAN DO IS TRY TO OVERCOME IT...TRY TO DO THINGS THAT MAKE U HAPPY...BE WITH UR FRIENDS...JUS DO SOMETHIN ELSE WITH YOUR TIME...EVENTUALLY IT WILL FADE..IM STILL TRYIN..BUT IM GETTIN THERE..U WILL TOO...

im going through da exact same thing as u dont worry and yea its pretty f'ed up.. i got dumped by the love of my life on tuesday ive never cried so much in my life i cant let him go and hes all i want its drivin me insane. but i know i will get through it i just takes a bit of time. the best u can do is not listen to sad songs, listen to some happy hardcore or something cheerful, go out as much as u can do something 2 take ur mind off it.. it may take u forever to get over it but it does get easier within time.. so ive been told anyway x

for me,
i either feel
cold empty and alone
or hurt angry and confused
its like a sick feeling in my stomach
that wont go away or stop
i dont know what it
is caused by
but it hurts

also, im always tired

the other half is hard to explain, the emotional half.
i always think that everything bad that happens is my fault so i kinda just stop trying for a while

it feels like all happiness has been stipped away and i wont ever be happy again

It's a kind of collapsing feeling in yur chest; it makes it constrict and get all hard to breathe ... But that's only when it starts to break.
After you start living with one, you start getting kind of numb because you get used to the pain.
Sort of.
For some people, it feels like the pain comes over them in waves, but for me, it's more like the collapsing feeling.
Don't know. That's my take on it.

orange daisy.

When my "heart breaks" I just start to think ...I think about everything the whole situation I go over things over and over and over agin in my mind.... It stresses me out and i just lay in my bed and think until i fall asleep

it suckss

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I feel all like that combined, and so much more, all I do is think about him, and what he said that was so painful.... when he said those few words I was just speechless, and I couldn't even think staight I didn't know what to say and what not to, and I just was so shocked and I just couldn't believe it.... it's like so many emotions mixed up and making you go crazy. I try to not think of him in the good ways, I try to go out and not think of him I try not to listen to sad music, but as soon as I get home I think of him... or when I go to bed he is nothing but on my mind... I've never been so stressed out and in pain in my life for anyone as I have been lately... and yet I still hope I don't ever lose him cause without him I feel so lost, I dont want him I need him... so yea.

I feel sick to my stomah..I usually cant really do ne thing...I lay in bed all day..untill i get over it..which i will sometime or ne other..but it just makes me uber weak and sometimez i can't think straight..!!

I can't think of anything... I feel like it's impossible to breathe, and my heart hurts so bad! My chest feels like there is this ton weight on it!!!!

I feel depressed and lonely... But just keep an open mind to trying new things, because the world is ever-changing and it can only get better when you've hit rock bottom

Everything is about crying and sleeping for me. I don't eat, I don't speak, I don't drink.. I don't even watch tv..

Mrs Zen Duce.... if i spelt that right, i must say thats exactly whats happened to me i cant stop thinking about what he said aswel.. it really does hurt so bad i dont no where to turn or wot 2 do with myself, i love him so much ive never loved someone as much as i loved him and this happens... it literally feels like a part of me hsa gone. he was the only thing that was going right in my life now hes gone i just cant find a reason for me to be here anymore... he says he still wants 2 be friends and he'll always be there for me.. but it wont be the same will it? it hurts so bad to even think that things will never go back to the way they were... and its all my fault.. for not trusting him! i feel so guilty i blame and hate myself for it all but its too late to do anything about it. theres nothing no one can say or do to make it better... well there is one thing... and thats for him to take me back! but i already know thats not going to happen so i really dont know why im still trying... i cant believe how hard this is...

Yea there are so many heart breaks with ranging pain and stress... it happens to the ones who are going through it or have... like us... but yea when he told me he wanted ONLY her and me as just a friend... I just wanted to I dunno... do something crazy, like just a few words make a person so insane especially for me... I dunno but love and all I'm sick of it. And I know he wont get with her he won't make it in the long run I know him so well... he hasn't even seen her! it's internet shii I can't believe he wants her instead of me I have been there for him in every way! and everything... and he chooses her? I bet 101 % that she can't do what I can do for him.. I know his goals and I know I can help him reach the stars, I know it from my heart I am the perfect girl for him... I just think he will have to learn the lesson through the hard way... cause that's how I've learned it and am currently...... I know all of this only made me so much stronger, I know I can advise others in a way he can't. And I know you all who have gone through this is more stronger than the ones that have betrayed y'all. But it makes me feel more comfortable that I'm not the only one dealing with pain, and that there are so many others who are going through this, we all can over come this, or atleast help each other out with advice.. and slowly this pain will be an experience of the past.. but for me that will never heal...

I feel alot of emotions when I'm going through a heart break, like anger, sadness, love, loneliness. And I sit there and think of what I could have done to change what had happened.

My Heart Breaks and I Feel::

Sad...Want to Cry...Delusioned...

Music Helps.
Writing Helps.

suicide

Mrs Zen Duce... by da sounds of it ur goin thru da exact same thing as me except my ex isnt going for someone ova da net, hes goin for someone who was my mate... until she got involved with him... ive just seen her in his car and it hurts so bad cuz i thought everything was sorted out! the other day she told me dat she aint intrested in him at all and that she will never get with him and apprently she doesnt want nothing to do with him ever again... i already know thats a lie because i just saw her with him!! in his car!! and it hurts so bad because i used to be really close to her and i never thought she would do anything to hurt me... and i loved him so much... and the fact that i wanted to see and speak to him tonight more than anything and i couldnt but then see them together... i just wanted to die. better still, kill her with my bare hands!!!! i cant deal with this any longer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Emma

Girl tell me about it. We both got problems with our ex's chasing other chicks, and ur ex getting with ur friend really is messed up. Tell me about it I feel this anger I don't feel for anyone but for that one girl who came in between us... and for my ex like dummy u haven't even seen her! she's all in ur head.. like why do they gotta leave the one that loves them so much!? for someone they hope that will love them. Cause just last night I told my ex I don't ever wanna speak to him again, and he didn't want me to leave him, he needs me as his "friend" and her as his partner... are u kidding me? watch him love another..... as a friend...? or the girl who loves him so much more than that other dumb 8**ch. And u have no idea how much I need him... all I'm doing is holding myself from talking to him... I need to make him realize his lost. And this is my first time telling him good-bye for good.... =*( but i know one day he's gonna regret that he lost me... he aint man enough to understand that yet, because i truly were perfect for him. Emma i know it hurts just like u know it too, be strong cause guys... what can i say r complex creatures....................... why u think im on poems-and-quotes.com ? seriously i just cant stand it but i am some how some way... if i can ever thank my ex id thank him for only making me stronger.. even though i feel weak without him ahh it's so complicated! lol...
we all feel like crap when our heart breaks.. and to all the ones who have posted the only one who can really help u with all these heart breaks is U urself.. its always u in the end.. ur friends will get tired of listening and so will others but its only U in the end..

anyways keep posting = ) peace

It's painful. Beyond words.

The palms of my hands feel numb, but then it still feels like.. nails are being driven through them, pulled out, and then driven through again.
It's the same with my heart, and every thought that runs through my head about him.
But, to all of you, remember this:

If s/he was really meant for you, you would not feel the pain of heart break from that person. Yes, it will hurt, but move on. Easier said than done, yes. It will take time, but you must, and you will move on.

As for those who say that online relationships don't work, that is just a stereotype.
I am happily attached to my boyfriend who I met online, and I have also met in real life because he was committed enough to come see me.
Most of them don't work because people just go on there ( The Internet ) to mess around.

Sometimes destiny can sneak up on you in the strangest ways. She can either stab you, or offer you a band-aid.
Just gotta wait your turn for her to be nice to you.
Good luck to all of you feeling pain, it will be over soon.

For me, it all depends on the circumstances... I'm a complicated person :P

buy another one off Ebay?..

ohhh sorry, i thought this was a joke ..

I didn't get that for a second.. until I thought about it lol.. yea I wish something like that existed.. but too bad there is no such thing...... = (

All my poems are based on that one particular guy... yes the one who effen broke my heart so many times. And if u haven't noticed all my poems are under either sad poems or love... that's all I can write about. And I got like more than 30! which is pretty crazy.

cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

I feel so unwanted and useless.....
and i have no confidence.....and i try to find the bright side i if i can....
then i tell myself tht no matter wht..
you can never die and the world wont end...just cuz of a broken heart

That's how I felt too, but u gotta be strong trust me we all can do so much better they don't deserve a girl who is true and right for them... let them realize that. but yea it still hurts.....

a broken heart..well they suck! I get really upset and cry..and i can't stop crying..and i get a pain in my chest that makes it hard to breathe. I then begin to ask myself why..what did i do wrong? what could i have done better? But eventually I move on, realize we weren't meant to be and realize im fine just the way i am :)

Yea I'm actually getting used to these heart breaks..

What I feel is this no longer to live life to the fullest. I just lay in bed and feel like I wanna die. Feels like someone just took my heart out jumped on it and them ripped it into a bunch of little pieces. Something I hope to never go through agian in my life.

well i felt empty cried a lot wouldnt talk or eat for a while, it sucked and i still feel sad sometimes.

I sort of qrote a poem on this. Could you guys check out "My Heart" and tell me if it's relevant?

I feel just like you only difference is that is it is me feeling it.

well when that happens to me i just think of all the good things that have happend to me in my life, just look at the positives.. and go and hang out with like just some of your friendss. and have a good time and try and not to think about him. it`ll make it easyer. but don`t rush into another relationship yet. it`ll be to hard and then you will reilize that you are still in love with your old love.

it hurts.. =( i jus felt sick.. couldnt sleep couldnt eat.. couldnt think of anything else.. its not like i ever got the point were it doesnt hurt but now its faded and less raw than it was xx

For me its all crying and feeling sorry for myself...every little thing, even if its a happy memory, just makes me feel sad and i just lie i bed crying until it sorts itself out :-( xx

~* When your heart breaks... You feel silence but no peace. Like a never ending thump in the middle of your throat. twisted stomach...lost and hopeless.... a lot like what I imagine hell will be like. Without the love of Jesus... people don't realize it but they go around feeling like this everyday. All you want is relief... to forget about what happen. to make a clean break... but you can't. It wont go away... It's like baggage that you can't set down. I felt like this once... but instead of listening to sad songs to feed my emotions more pain... I read my Bible and prayed. It was like medicine for the soul that went through my spirit and directly to my heart. ~*

i remember the only time my hearts been broken i cried a river...it was so painful. none of my family knew what i was going trough so bottling it up inside kinda made it worst cuz i got really depressed. my best friend was there to help me, and well she kinda did but i still felt hopeless. now like ^^ my boyfriend has taught me that reading the Bible and praying is much better than listening to sad songs when ur heart is broken...and its true

i kinda have this weird thing now... like don't care at all about anything when it comes to him.... but if the slightest thing happens like if we dont talk or something i feel like im drowning... n i just have to talk to him, but im learning to control... cuz if i give in im weak. my heart is just so used to the pain, i can predict it.

fcuk.

a SEARING pain in the centre of my chest...on the sternum...exactly where the heart is supposed to be located. it kills me...