how can you trust someone

I love my boyfriend and I know he wouldnt do anything to hurt me, thats what my heart tells me, but my head tells me all guys cheat. my previous relationships all ended cause the guy was unfaithful. now that I have the perfect boyfriend, I cant seem to trust him. so I will apreciat it if someone can give me tips on how to trust a guy

Not every guy is like that. Not like your ex I mean.

^^^I agree

People have to gain trust… problem is that in order for them to gain your trust you must give them a chance which often means opening up to them and taking the risk.

Not all guys are like your ex, try not to allow that 1 bad experience to prevent you from trusting others.

some guys hurt, some guys heal.
you just have to fall for the one your heart tells you to fall for.

yeah i know how u feel. i feel the same way. but you got to keep telling yourself

''without trust then what have you got?''

IF U dont trust him ...then thats fine ... but u must sit down and talk to him..tell him how u feel and why your feeling like this. it might do some gd.
x

let me tell u now... not all guys r like that!! even the ones that have cheated in the past it doesnt mean they would cheat on u!! seriously, dont get too paranoid bout the whole trust thing because ive just lost a boyfriend because i couldnt trust him and it drove him away... the biggest mistake ive ever made! i regret it so much and ive never cried so much in my life i would do anything to get him back but he wont take me back now because he knows i dont trust him and yea.. just dont end up like me ok!!

i think that if you are open with him and tell him how you feel and have good communication than maybe he will come to you when he needs someone to vent to

Hi sweetie,

If you've been hurt in the past, its really really hard for you to learn to trust again...the only way you can trust your fella is to be patient and understanding......you really have to earn trust, you need to learn to trust him it takes time.....but you will get there eventually...you cant just expect trust to happen right away....the whole getting to know each other experience is great for learning to trust each another. Time is the key.

trust is hard to create and easy to destroy, you cant wish or hope or make trust happen. you have to let it unravel, see what happens, some people are very trustworthy its just a characteristic, others arent, but everyone can earn your trust.

didnt really help sorry

trust is hard to create and easy to destroy, you cant wish or hope or make trust happen. you have to let it unravel, see what happens, some people are very trustworthy its just a characteristic, others arent, but everyone can earn your trust.

didnt really help sorry

im having the same problem right now....and its hurting our relationship sooo bad...hun listen to you heart....cause thats exactly what i didnt do and i basicly lost him today
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