Coincidence..i swear

okay so i was dating this guy, but we broke up after like 2 weeks, i never felt the way about him that he felt about me anyways.. i then met this other guy and totally fell for him. and now we are dating. however i found out after i started liking him that him and my ex are friends. now i thought id be the bigger person and tell my ex, before he heard from someone else. so i did and he went ape, said i was using his friend to get back at him. which doesnt make sense since i broke up with him. anyways he told my new bf that im a bitch and that i dont actually like him and im just using him. which kills me, i dont care what my ex thinks but i dont want him to ruin a good thing. do i leave it alone? or talk to my ex? what do i do? thanks

ok im in the same boat as you. Its hard but if you really love your new bf tell your ex that you love him. And tell your ex that its over between you too and it wont work out again and tell him that he needs to stop calling you names that he is just being immature idiot. hope that helps.

I'm in a similar situation but not as intense. Tell your ex that you really care about your new b/f and just because he's friends with him doesn't mean your feelings will change. Tell him that you've moved on and he needs to stop trying to come between you and your b/f. I think you should also explain to your b/f that you really care about him and your ex is in the past and that shouldn't have any part in your relationship. Let them both know how you feel and what's going on. I hope i helped. Good luck.

DEFINATLEY TALK TO HIM AND TELL EXACTLY WHAT YOU THINK AND YOUR MOTIVES!!!!!

this is hard but if he really likes you he'll come and talk to you about it dun worry mami guys come and go but the right one will last forever..

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Sit them both down together and talk to them about it. That way everything comes out at once. Ya know? It's no fun going from person to person trying to tell each person how you feel and trying to make things better.

Just talk to them both.

if i were you i would let my ex run his mouth and if the new bf believes him and isnt willing to talk to you about it then he isnt worth being with

i would forget about my ex tell the new one that your ex is lying and being a moron, tell the new one you like him and etc.