Should I wait?

I'm dating my b/f for 9 months, and I'm very much in love with him. But last night he said that we should just stop dating this summer because he and I are both working full time jobs, and he's not good with the whole summer relationship things, but he wants to go back out with me next school year. I'm not sure exactly whats going on, is this is way of breaking up with me? If not am I to wait for him all summer? Does he just want to take a break maybe? And If i do wait for him do i call him this summer and get together once in awhile, or no? I tryed talking to him about it but he insisted it was just that he'd be busy this summer. What do you think?

I did talk to him, he insisted that he'd just be to busy working and taking classes down at the college to hold onto a relationship.

ask him if he's asking for space, and that there arent any other thoughts on his mind or something.. tell him to be straight up honest cause u need to know it aint no game. but dont get all agressive type just calmly and easly ask him. but if he says the same dont force him let him come after u, u know what i m saying... so yea

NO NO NO!!!!!!!!

He is playing you girl ... summer is time for boys to get girls.. and his being busy is an excuse he wants to be a chick magnet or something during the summer and then when the fun is all over wants you back.. NO NO NO!!!!

DONT DO IT!!!!

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This is funny because this happened to me....the guy broke up after I told him that I didn't want have sex with him anymore...but he said that it was because he was getting ready to start college and once he got into the swing of things...he wanted to get back together.

Turns out that he wanted to date other people...and was mad becuse I didn't want to have sex with him anymore...SO..yeah.

I would say that he's breaking up with you and you should find someone new over the summer...if you guys stay in contact and it sounds like he really does mean what he says then I would go for it...you really just need to wait and see. Since we don't know you or your relationship....we really can't tell you to run or not. Ya know?

i once had a summer relationship and when we came back the next school year he changed so much that it ended our friendship. so i think guys just say that to take a break if i were you i would just move on. if he doesnt want to stay with you he isnt worth being with at all.

If you ask me, that's a pretty lame excuse to break up. I'd drop him, because he obviously doesn't want to go out of his way just to see you in the summer time, which could be harder than the school year. What I meant by "go out of his way" is not an insult of you, it's just that's he's a selfish prick. Enough said.

yeah maybe get in there first on fish things with him it does sound like he is kinda using u n he wants to have no girlfriend over the summer so he can play the field n hook up with other girls!!!!!
personally i woodnt get bk with him after summer i wood finsh him now n go enjoy myself n if i found someone then go for it... stuff him...
he is not being fair to u at all!!

i dont think that you should wait for him because if he loved you he wouldn't want to break up. i dont know for sure but i think that is a way for him saying a need a break.

Oh...no...you shouldn't...he was very much in love with you then he would work through the whole "summer relationship" thing...it's not a big deal!! He wants to split so he can do his own thing...that's what it sounds like...don't stand for that!!

You should let him wait and go on with your life without him.