lady troubles

maybe she doesn't know how to act around guys she really likes. once she gets to know you better, she'll be more comfortable around you and act 'normal'
just wait. i'm sure she'll come around.

Okay, this is something a lot of girls do. If they really like a guy, they might be really shy and not know what to say. I'm going through it right now. If you start to hang out together, she will get more comfortable as time goes on. All you have to do is sit and talk to her. I hope i helped. Good luck.

Girls do get very shy and nervous at the same time... but u as her man gotta keep in mind to not judge her in a way which will make her feel even more uncomfortable or insecure, try to act casual with her... and let her know that she doesn't need to worry about anything make her feel wanted and not so shy... communicate and don't let silence or akwardness exist around.... anyways I hope this helps. Peace

I must agree.

Treat her like nothing is going on...for example when she starts getting really quite around you, instead of you getting quite too or asking her what is wrong, ask her to go on a walk with you. If you guys are already walking, then tell her you'll race her...and get really excited and stuff. That kind of stuff always worked for me. Talk about something really funny. Really show her that there is no reason to be uncomfortable around you and that she can trust you. Just make her laugh...that's a great way to a girls heart...make her feel wanted, and make her laugh.

yeah i agree some girls arent tht confident with blokes who are could be more than a mate! im well confident with blokes if i know they are just me mate.. but wen they come to being more than mates i kinda run away!.. n actually recently last week i went on date n it were wicked..nxt day we went out for a walk around a huge park thingy but he started to get too close i actually did run off but he caught me up n grabbed me n fell on floor.. blah blah it were fab but my point is...

i agree with post above mine... be yourself n make it fun dont say everything ok... playfully push her sideways or something.. i dunno it makes it fun n itll make her more than likely be fun back n not quiet.. give it a try be cheeky with her some girls love tht! (it worked for me) lol

take care hope it wks out

I have to agree... it's hard for a girl to know how to act in front of a guy she really likes, because she's actually afraid to lose him... just be playful with her, and compliment her. just make her feel like you don't want to be anywhere else but right there with her. Trust me... i'm still waiting for a guy to do this for me..... :( ok now i have a question for the guys. Why do guys feel like they have to be a player? That's not exactly attractive to a girl-we don't want to be treated like a vibrator for godsakes!

I agree with everyone. She's definately shy. I know that if I like a guy a whole bunch i'm usually really really shy around him, and can hardly talk. She's probably just scared that you don't like her as much as you really do. Show her you like her, talk to her, make her comfortable around you. Laugh with her, and do things she really enjoys, eventually she will come around. Girls want to be approached. I can't say that enough. We are shy creatures, and we don't like making the first move. You go out there and let her know you like her, and that she means something to you.