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I need some advice…I have a friend, she’s great and all but she moves on from guy to guy way to easily. I mean really she says “I love you” to all of them and will only be a little sad after things don’t work out. My friend Kayla says it’s easier not to get attacked but I don’t believe that. I’ve stuck with my person all this time even though I never see them. I don’t understand how people can do that…I mean really that makes it seem as if the person you were with never meant anything to you in my opinion.
Also…ok this isn’t really telling anyone since I highly doubt anyone knows her or her bf, she promised me to keep something a secret. I just don’t know what to do because I’m kinda mad at her about it. I went to a HIM concert last night and we ran into this cute guy and hung out with him for a while, well at the end she ran off with him so I lost her until the concert was over. THEY WERE HOLDING HANDS BEFORE THEY LEFT! Plus she told me she kissed him, twice. She has a boyfriend, they’ve been dating for a month or so and they dated last year. I don’t understand how she can do that…I mean I know she’ll probably never see this guy again but that’s still cheating and totally unfair to her boyfriend. She made me promise not to tell anyone like 10 times. She says if he ever found out he’d dump her and then she’d kill herself. Maybe I’m just to young to understand this crap…what do you think?

-Katie

you need to tell her that if she likes him that much that she'd kill herself over him dumping her then she needs to prove it by being faithful to him

Let your friend do as she pleases, shes your friend dont judge her and start worrying more about your own love life than the ins and outs of hers...unless its your boyfriend she be running off and kissing stay out of her personal life and just love her for who she is...if it bothers you that much find another friend because you really have no right to say anything to her...keep your nose out of it I reckon...

I don't think i can agree with you there, i mean if you say your her friend than you a responibilty to ensure she's making the ryte choices in her life and staying in line with wut ever she does. A friend is supposed to worry about their other friends, thats y they are friends, because they care for each other. So honestly, this girl does have a right to be worried because she cares for her friend, she wants to understand how she cud b so thoughtless in her actions and just wants advice on how to tell her.

To answer the 1st post, right now i think your friend just doesn't know what she wants, she might be trying to find what she does and doesn't like or she could just be someone who likes to a fling for a few weeks than move on. But don't worry to much because many people have that kind of thinking but they realise that flings are good but being in a serious relationship is much more meaningful. About the concert thing, i once had a friend who did practically the same thing with this one girl, mind u both were my friends so it was hard for me 2 keep my mouth shut because its not your relationship u don't have the right to expose what damage has been done, however u can try to persuade your friend to realise that if she wants the relationship to last that she can't be going to some random guy and start kissing them... be careful how u approach the situation tho because if u come on to hard then she might take it the wrong way

well maybe theres somethiing shes not telling u like maybe someone died and shes like freaking out or somethings wrong at home but just tell her that u love her n that ur there for her n just cool it with her but talk to her but i think something mite be up
kate

I definetly will have to disagree Kien...now friendship is one thing but she has no obligation and particularly no responsibility to ensure the actions of anybody but herself. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink, wrong and right decisions are what enable us to grow, being a friend is merely being there to support either one of those decisions right or wrong, not take control or responsibility for them in anyway!
Yes she has a right to be worried but does she have the right to make judgement of her friend? I think not, to give advice is one thing but we should usually wait until we are asked for advice, as even then it has a tendency to back fire .