missing my boy

my boyfriend ( immaturally ) ran away from home and is going to his dads who lives 2 states away for 6 weeks or longer,, i see him everyday and we have been in love for 2 years im only 15 and cant handle him moving away from me,, im not very individul.
he hasnt gone yet and i cry everyday cause i will miss!

i dont know what ill do when he's actually left,,
give me some advice please ( i feel so cause i feel so miserable )

hes been gone for 3 days now only 5 weeks and 4 days to go,,,

IM SO SAD WIFOUT HIM :'(

I think ya should just hang out with your friends and try to forget about him for now. I hate when people say things like "I'm sad because he's gone." You do not need a guy to make you happy! Just a thought..

yeah but i actually do need him cause hes been my best friend for so long and its just so lonely without him,,

me and my friends are havin a fight over him at the moment cause they dont like him so all the girls in my grade are angry at me and the only one whos talkin to me is his cousin hayley cause me and her and best friends to....

im sorry but i dont even have a bf

i guess it will be hard at first but you know that a long distant relationship works but for some it doesn't like me it doesn't and i cant help you

Well maybe you should make it up with your mates..you need your girl friends around you not just your boyfriend..because your girl mates will stick by you through whatever, and guys..no matter how much you think you love them..sometimes it doesn't work out. My advice to you is to talk to your friends, ok they don't like him..why is that? is it because you spend all your time with him instead of them? is it because they know stuff about him you don't? Maybe they're jealous you've got a boyfriend and they haven't.
Go out to town with your mates, do girly girly things with your mates, stuff you can't do with your boyfriend...you'll be having so much fun with them you won't miss your boyfriend as much and the time will fly by

Another thing..you seem way dependant on this guy..its like he's your obsession and your whole life revolves around him..girl you're 14/15? It isn't healthy to be obsessed with a guy so young. Maybe this break will do you guys good..maybe you need some time by yourself so you can get your head sorted.

ya i know what your feeling the first guy i ever loved always runs away from hom * hes my ex * but his parents call my house everytime he does and when i hear that i start panicking and crying but all you can do is stay strong .... its gonna be ok ... keep me posted ... good luck !
from Jen

"yeah but i actually do need him cause hes been my best friend for so long and its just so lonely without him,,"

You just think you need him. What you need right now is your family and your friends. Don't depend on one guy so much, you're only 14!

"me and my friends are havin a fight over him at the moment cause they dont like him so all the girls in my grade are angry at me and the only one whos talkin to me is his cousin hayley cause me and her and best friends to...."

Woah, your friends are way way WAY more important than he is! Especially at your age. It is always friends first, they're the ones who will still be holding you up when a guy breaks your heart.

I think you should break it off with your boyfriend, and go make up with your friends. Hang out with them for a while. You can get over any guy, but you'll forever regret leaving your friends behind. Good luck, take care.

There is one thing you must learn before you can say you love someone and are happy with it. You must first be your own person and love yourself. People say that they are each others halves. But you shouldn't be two wholes making an even bigger connection. Do you see what I'm saying? Take some time and learn more about yourself and who you are. You'll be happier when you are back with him.

I have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now...it was only supposed to last 5 months...so it's been twice as long. It's hard as hell.

BUT...we see eachother once a month if not more...for at least 3 days if not a couple of more. I'm 20 btw. Lol....but....the last trip that I made to see him....which was this past weekend....we got engaged!!

You're still young. If he moves away...then maybe it will make your relationship stronger...BUT....since you are young...if he doesn't come back....then...well....you arne't going to be able to see him as often as I can see Tony.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that long distance relationships are hard...,but if you guys really care about eachother, you'll make it. Even if you are young. If you have made it 2 years so far....then you have a good chance.