how do you know if someone is in love with you????

  • ** plum snow **
    18 years ago

    plzz help, i cant decide if my friend is in love with me, what are the signs??

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    If they love you, they will tell you. There are no signs when it comes to love.

  • Elizabeth
    18 years ago

    You can just feel it when you are around them sometimes are just ask them if they are your friend they should be able to tell you anything

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    You don't know. You can wait and see if they decide to tell you, or you can just ask. Either way works, but asking is probably better.

  • ** plum snow **
    18 years ago

    so if they never tell you and you never ask... what happens to the love??? xXx

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    What love? If they don't tell you or try to tel you they probably don't love you. People who love one another are usually a couple or even good friends.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    "If they don't tell you or try to tel you they probably don't love you."

    I don't tell my parents I love them, or even my sister. Does that mean I don't love them?.. NO
    it doesn't.

    Sarah makes a good point, love isn't words. You don't have to tell someone you love them. I'm sure a deaf person can 'express' love the same way other people do.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    ^^^ Agreed.

    I like that theory.
    :)

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    Well there are actually three types of love

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    Friends, family, and the person you want to be with the rest of your life

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    There's so many more types than three I think.....there is romantic love, spirtitual love, sensual love, family love, interest love, conditional/unconditional love, elderly love, tough love, perfect love.....the list goes on and on....i think that when it comes down to it, love is what you make it, good or bad, right or wrong, and only you can decide wether to stay on the cliff and watch the birds fly by or to step off and find out if you can fly yourself.

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    just a theory

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I don't tell my parents I love them, or even my sister. Does that mean I don't love them?.. NO
    it doesn't.
    ^I wasn't really thinking about it like that, but you made your point. I'm just saying, normally when two people love one another they say it. Everyone is different so i really can't say that so forget it.

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    "so if they never tell you and you never ask... what happens to the love??? xXx"

    ^Nothing happens, maybe it's not even there. If you want this then you have to tell him, or else nothing may come of it.