>•Advice Giver!

Well, I was discussing this with my friend last night..
Somehow we always end up giving someone advice to get the girl/guy we like.
Example, I helped the guy I liked for years get a girl he hardly knew.
My friend helped his friend get a girl -he's- liked since he was 8.

Why do some people just keep giving advice when it will bite them in the Ar$e. Anyone else feel this way?
That in the end, Your just there to help them when they need it. Sure you helped two people be happy, with the cost of watching the person you like drifting further away.

I know, "your both young, get over it" but still..sucks :]

i agree with you it really sucks. . .im like that as well i just want the guy i like to be happy so i support him thru all his girlfriends and yes it makes him happy but it sure hurts alot too! but id rather him be happy than than not so if hes never gonna like me i might aswell be a good friend,. so yeah im sure youll find a guy sometime :D
LOve Ally

^ agreed

*nods as well*

Well said.

*Joins in on the nodding game*

so what happens when the guy you like, asks you to hook him up with your bffl????

You find out if she likes him.
And make them both happy. =/

Or.

Don't do it, be selfish and make them both sad.
=[

Gaaaah. :]

i've done that, i guess i feel that the person i like i like them so much and i want them to be happy.

Yea i went thru the same ish... for like 2 yrs. and now i actually told him i dont wanna talk to him again... though im dying inside without him... but i cant stand him talking about loving another..... it hurts so much yet when i hear his voice... ahh.. what can i say. i miss him and want him.. but will i ever have him.. i may never know cause i stopped talking to him. should i continue talking to him and get hurt inside... or just let it be and go on..... as i have been his very close friend... and yea only friend..... and wants me to stay with him as just that.. while he loves another...
yea it sure does hurt.

i know what you mean! all my friends come to me for advice, and i love that i can help them out, but then its hard on me, like who do i go for when i need it? and how come i can help them be happy, but i cant help myself.

I NEED SOME HELP!!!

mE AND MY BEST FRIEND ARE LIKE CLOSE BUT I WANT TO GET CLOSER. WELL ONE DAY WE WENT OUT BUT ENDED BRAKING UP BECAUSE IT FELT WEIRD. NOW WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND ITS BEEN A YEAR SINCE WE WENT OUT, I MOVED BUT SUDDENLY I FEEL LIKE THE ONLY PLACE I WANT TO BE IS WITH HIM, BUT LATELY HES BEEN MEAN AND I WISH I COULD TELL HIM HOW I FEEL, MY MOM SAYS I CAN MOVE BACK BUT IT FEELS LIKE THERE IS NOTHING REALLY TO MOVE BACK TO SO I HAVE TO MAKE A CHOISE WETHER TO MOVE BACK OR STAY.
SO BASICALLY I WANT TO KNOW HOW CAN I TELL THE PERSON I LOVE HOW I FEEL AND SHOULD I MOVE BACK OR STAY?