You can get over him!

I can't believe it.. I went through heart breaks tears and watched nightmares during the day... but finally I'm getting over him... because I let go of him. I feel free. And I believe anyone can do it. He will always be thought of, but I know he will regret it one day but I wont because I know I've tried and he was the one to be ignorant. I'm glad that I have controlled myself. It still hurts sometimes... because I'm still going through the process of getting over him.. but I know I'm strong. F guys F him, he doesn't deserve me at all, and what makes me feel good is that he's never gonna
get the best of what was there in front of him. Anyways you all just need to try and it will happen. But I feel good I feel free and that I can do what ever I want. No more chains around my legs.

Good for you. Hope all is well.

But not all guys are bad.

I have been having some of the same problems it sounds like from what you wrote here. If this were advice i would say it would be the best.

Good for you!

I like what's in this thread! Finally something POSITIVE! It's ALWAYS hard at first...but time heals the pain. The key is just being patient. One day you feel like you can't live and the next it's eased off your shoulders. I'm so happy to see this!

GO HEAD GIRLFRIEND!! HAHA

Good for you!!...I mean some girls will stay up in their rooms for mths.waitting for him to come back but you were strong..and i wish everygurl was like that..But they're not some are 2 weak..But it's nice to know that the chains are off your legs YOU GO GIRL!! best luck!!

XoKaylaXo

YOU GO GIRL i final let go of my a## hole ex you just have to find some reason to hate them argg mine was a total as if man i hate him arrg

Yea I exactly know what u mean yup = ) but for some reason i want him baaaack =( but no! i wont do that.... or will I? ok hopefully I wont lol.

im glad you got over himm..thats awesome..i wish i could get over my ex boyfriend..

Yea I sure did let go of him... cept one problem he talked to me! actually called me and pleaded for me not to leave him.... he left me in a very emotional situation.... what can I say? I love him... and I care for him deeply, so I told him we'll talk only once every month...... I dunno what to do. He wont leave me and doesn't want me to leave him. Yet he wants that other *i t c h urggg... and me like wa the !&#*)?

I know i don't know the whole situation or whatever, but i just got out of a terrible relationship with i guy that i cared.... care for very much, but there's a catch. He's a player. All players are the same. They either a) never change, or b) need a serious kick in the balls(figurative) to show them what they're missing. From what it sounds like, you're an amazing girl/woman, whatever, and you are much too good to be wasting your tears, time, and love on someone that doesn't seem willing to return any of the latter. Good luck... i know how much it hurts, but it does get better. A WORD TO THE WISE - Don't talk to him for about 3 months. It only reminds you what you're missing and makes you want him back. Good luck girl... stay strong. trust me, it gets better!