What would you do...

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    What you do if you had a best friend and both of you were so close that you really did not hang out with anyone else becasue you two were so close and then on day she decideds to pack up and move. This happend to me this year and now i am all alone. One good thing happend one of my friends moved back but we both had changed a lot over the years we havent seen each other and it was kind of hard to get used to. Because of this i was so depressed and not to mention i lost the guy i loved to susicide. Anyways because of this my grades were horrible and i had a hard year. I have a hard time dealing with things sometimes.

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    Wow...

    I understand how you feel....

    But you have to be strong. You have to move on, I had a best friend long before, and my family especially my mother were against it. Because he raped his cousin....

    His family went to Africa, and never came back. I was heartbroken for a few months. I eventually got over it. When I went to Africa, I am sorry I mean east africa, on vacation...After four years of not seeing or speaking to each other. I found it extremely hard to talk or to have a rapport with him.

    After our meeting, we never saw one another again... It is shame..

    My advice: Give it time.

  • Kristina
    18 years ago

    i've had A LOT of best friends move away. it seems like everytime i become best friends with someone they move away and i never see them again and i hate it cause i'm not an easy person to get along with and i mostly hate a lot of people so me to be close to someone and then they move away it hurts and i hate it. so now i'm afraid to come really close with someone cause i dont want them to leave and then i'll always think about them. cause now i always think about all my friends that moved away and i just wanna see them so bad and see how they're doing.

  • ♥**KaylaElisabeth**
    18 years ago

    I Moved away from my best friend last year.and she is suffeing from it to..she tells me all the time that she wants me to move back and she wants things to be how they used to be..but things won't be what they used to be.Me and her are 2 diffenrt people now.and yeah we're still close but the phone calls get fewer and fewer each day..But if she was really your best friend she won't stop caring about you no matter how much you 2 have changed.She tells me all the time that i've changed and i tell her the same thing.when i moved we both suffered a great deal of depression..we couldn't stand not seeing each other or not passing notes in class it was really hard..But we're doing fine now we still talk but not as we used to.but she's still my Bfff..we will always care about each other...well I wish u 2 the best of luck!!!

    XoKaylaXo

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    WOW that is like the exact same thing with Sarah and I. That her name. We were so insperatable. I miss her so much and we barley even talk anymore. I went down there for spring break and when i came home a couple days later we got into this huge fight. She was so mad at me for some reason and i had no clue as to why. She wrote me and said sorry that she was just in a bad mood but i havent really talked to her latley. its just the whole school thing you know. I like dont have many friends and i used to kind have a lot and after my ex died i lost even more and i have no clue why. i am kind of picking my life back up but i was sooooooo depressed.