What should I do...

  • sexylittleone
    18 years ago


    My best friend has a boyfriend they have been going out for about 3 months now I guess... and in those three months she has changed into someone... that it hurts to say but she is not really my best friend anymore.... I was best friends with the OLD her... and she trys to tell me that she hasn't changed and that ditch me for him.. but she does and I'm not the only one saying that... my other friends are saying that too... I tryed to talk to her about it... and I kinda ignored her for a week.. and then finally she told me that she would stop talking about him.. and stop ditching me for him... so I gave her another chance... on the last day of school she was suppose to be going to a party and she told me that she was going to ditch it so I could come over... but then come to find out the party was changed to a different night... and that's the only reason she invited me over... I have nothing aginst her boyfriend... but he has changed her... before she went out with him she had never been kissed.. and after they had been going out for a month she wanted to do it with him... like I said I have nothing agisnt him... but a week before they were going out... people were saying that his ex-gf was going to have a baby...his baby... I don't know what to do... I want to get my old best friend back... or I don't want her to be my best friend at all.... please give me some advice....

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    I actually feel for you…

    I understand you completely 100%.

    I think I understand her, she is the kind of person who would do whatever he says, just to be with him. Fearing not to be alone.

    I don’t think you should snub her, rather comfort her, and try to understand her. She needs you more than you think. Think about that.

  • Scary Dream, Beautiful Nightmare
    18 years ago

    But she was perfectly fine being alone.. without him... she doesn't want me to comfort her... something... most of the time... she doesn't even want me around...

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    Just try and be there for her.