complete opposites

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    ok me and this girl sarah are complete opposites (hence the title... clever huh?) she's against everything i do and i'm against everything she does she goes to house parties and drinks i go to toronto and rave... dispite all that we still walk each other to classes every day (and i mean EVERY day) lately we have had less to talk about though... and she doesn't seem to enjoy the time when we walk together... i on the other hand, live for it, but i don't see why she still comes to my locker everyday so we can walk. so naturally everyone has assumed in their narrow minds we're going out (which we most unfortunately aren't) so i keep saying no and for a while i didn't want to but i do now.(go out that is) also she moved to cambrigde (like 2 hours away), but during the week she lives with her friend in my town so she can finish school... so basically any relationship will fall apart in the summer. but now i'm so crazily attracted to her that i don't care about the summer even though it would emotionally destroy me.

    so do i keep walking to class everyday nothing more,
    or try to enjoy the rest of the time we have together(if she says yes)
    or (if she says no) lose walking to class with her because of the insanely akwardness that would follow.

    and how would YOU go about doing whatever you think i should do

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    i'm sorry but can the first person say what they think in simplier words

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I think you should tell her how you feel. The worst she can say is no, and even if she does, if she cares enough about you, you will continue to make the most of the time you have left. If you care about her as much as you say, she should know. Do you really want to let this opportunity slip away? Life involves taking chances, even ones that end up hurting us, but it's those chances that make life most exciting. Take a chance and tell her how you feel. I hope i helped. Good luck.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    My girlfriend are total opposites..

    I listen to hardcore rock music, and I play in a band. She listens to Gangster rap and wouldn't listen to rock. We hate each other's music. I'm in university and she is in college. I'm from the west indies, she's from the east indies. We don't have much in common, except for the fact that we like each other alot. We were friends, and as soon as I got the chance to tell her I liked her, I did. It worked out so far. So my advice, tell her now, before it's too late.

    It seems like you are slipping away from each other, it can be revived with those words you hide. It may make it worst, but if you don't take that risk, you may end up regretting it later on.
    (I basically agree with punk) Good luck man.

    the Toronto scene is pretty sick ;)

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    ok so it's agreed i should tell her how might i go about doing so.

    don't tell me to just tell her how i feel because i don't even know i never reall have a chance to talk to her privately either so either everyone will see us get together or see me crash and burn

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I really think you should set aside atime to see her privately. It's not a very good idea to do it infront of everyone. That' just my opinion. I would say you should go about it in a romantic way. If you need me to be more specific, i will.

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    more specific would be better... i'm not sure if i want to do it romantically because we'll only be together for like 5 weeks at best... i mean we could try over the summer but i don't want to get to involved just let her know how i feel and spend more time with her

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I see, well i was going to suggest something else, but since it might not last long, i guess i'll suggest sometihng else. Tell her you want to talk to her, but you would like it to be just the two of you. Make a plan to meet up, and tell her how you feel, and that you would love it if you could spend some time with her for the remainder of time she has left. Do you have anything in mind that you want to tell her? You could always put your feelings into poetry form and give it to her. I think that would also be a good way to do it.

  • Cryss
    18 years ago

    if you dont tell her..youll never nkow if she felt the same way. I say tell her. and yep ^^^^ thatperson above me has good ideas.