*What is she?*

One of my best friends.Is I really don't know what she is..She falls in love wayy to fast.and if a guy treats her like crap she just goes back out with them.i try to talk 2 her the best way i can but i can't get it through her head.She has slept with just about every single one of her boyfriends. and if she hasen't slep with them they've done something to her.When i like a guy she trys to steal him because she knows she's way better looking then i am so she goes after them.and when she's hanging around her other friends she always calls me and thinks i'm going to get jelous or something and she rubs just about everything in my face.but then she tells me i'm her best friend.and i tell her the same thing because i don't wnat to get her mad at me or start any drama..what do i do????..

XoKaylaXo

~ First of all, if she was really your best friend, she would stay away from the guys you like and she wouldn't do any of that other stuff ^^^ to make you jealous. If she sleeps around and gets pregnant or gets some kind of disease, it's totally not your fault---it's hers. If she won't listen to you it's her own problem. You are obviously trying to be a good friend, when all she is doing is being a bratty pain in the butt. Let her know that you are just trying to protect her b/c you care, because thats what best friends are for. You wouldn't be trying to stop her from destroying her life if you didn't care...

That's an example of what many people would call a whore. You reall need to sit her down and tell her to stop giving herself to every freaking guy she is with. Oh and personally i don't think she is a true friend. REal friends don't try and make their other friends jealous or steal a guy they like. Why are you even continuing to be friends with that slut. No affense but she's a b****. MY ex friend used to treat me like crap and i had just about enough and told her i didn't want to talk to her anymore. I know exactly what you're going thorugh because i've been through it. Let me tel;l you, my ex friend, she used to make me feel horrible about myself. After i stopped being friends with her, everyone noticed a change in my attitude. I became more positive and wasn't as depressed. If she is making you think negative about your self, youshouldn't tkae that. You know deep down sh'e just a slut. The sooner you stop being friends with someone who treats you like that, the better. I'm sorry if this was harsh, but i hope you make the right decision. Good luck. If you need any more advice about this, email me.

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I agree with what punks said.

Stop judging her, let her learn and be her friend by being there when she needs you....friendship isnt about judging someone. If she wants your opinion Im sure she will ask for it...

Or if her behaviour really bothers you that much and you think shes being vindictive...id would reassess the friendship.

she seems to be a bit insecure... it would mak perfect sense that it's "her life"... but try to tell her she's wonderful (and worth much more than just one-nighters with her guys....) if she's doing that about the guys u like... she probably A) wants to be like you... or B) Wants to ruin your life.

choose wisely... keep her or ditch her... forgive her or console her... your choice.

First of all again, thats not a best friend, best friends treat each other in respect and kindness... second of all, some people love when guys or girls treat them bad,,,i have a friend she is very good looking she slept with all hey bf, but once they show her love she leaves them... i asked a friend of mine, he is a guy, and he said that, cos she is very good lookin and every1 falls for her, she would always be attracted to the one who treats her bad,,, and i think your friend is the same way...you cant change her.

i would have to kinda agree with eibutsina dont judge her but at the same time maybe shes doing b/c somethings wrong at home and u dont know it so shes doing something crazy to make her feel better and something that "makes her happy" i would just relaxe and dont let it stress u out

kate