1st kiss

  • SeXiiE LaDiiE
    18 years ago

    well i was gunna get my 1st kiss but tha thing that is that it was gunna b my 1st one wid sum1 i really love but i was kinda scared cauz sinz i havent done it b4 but it didnt happen cauz we got interrupted :( but i kinda got saved though cauz i needed some tipz/recommendationz everything lol. how do i do it?? please help me

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    I can't give you any tips on kissing..you'll know what to do when the time comes..even if its a really bad kiss that just gives you another reason to kiss this person a second time round!!
    A first kiss is dead scary, I was so nervous about my first kiss, but afterwards my ex didn't think that was my first kiss..whether or not he was just trying to calm me down i will never know..but yeah don't worry just go with it :)

  • Ashley
    18 years ago

    Just take it slow, Practise makes perfect =)

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Practise doesn't make perfect, because no one is perfect. That statement is flawed in every possible way.

  • Kara !
    18 years ago

    This is one of the questions I hear most frequently, and I just don't know the answer to it. Kissing really is something that comes naturally. You just know what to do at the time, which I know is annoying to hear, but it's true.
    The best advice I think I can possibly give you is follow his lead, other than that, I'm not sure what I can possibly say.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    ^^ agreed, follow his lead.

    But when you feel comfortable, take control. A guy shouldn't be in control of kissing, because that allows him to make the next move.

  • Bridgette
    18 years ago

    ^^ I agree.
    Don't worry.. it will all come to you and you will know what to do :)

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    "Follow his lead.."--Darn I was gonna say that, hehe.

    But personally, my first kiss was really incredibly awkward, however trust me: they do get better. And easier, when you're less nervous. Just go with it. Good luck :)

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Well if it's not his first kiss as well, then follow his lead, but when you're ready to stop, stop, otherwise he might think you want to go further. Go with it. Trust me, it's not as bad as you think. You may be nervous, but once you actually do it, it's amazing. The feeling you get when you get your first kiss is unexplainable.

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    my first kiss was no biggie, cause i wasnt so crazy about the guy i was kissing. but my 1st kiss with my bf, i was nervous like what if he thinks im bad, but once he went in for another i knew that it had to be all right.
    good luck, just go with the flow,

  • SeXiiE LaDiiE
    18 years ago

    thanks guys for all of the comments. yea i got that from my friend too. "let him take the lead" but i am soo dead scared right now :$ im afraid to do sumthing wrong and not letting my lips be on his lips where theyre supposed to be :( i dont know if i explained myself to well.... but yea that is how i feel

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    The First kiss is always scary but always the most remembered. I know i will never forget mine.

  • piglet911
    18 years ago

    i cant really give you any advice when it feels right everything will kinda just happen and most of the time youll be a natural

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Sometimes it's better to have a peck as a first kiss, that way your lips touch and you stop pretty quickly so there is nothing to worry about. My friends first kiss was a peck and her and her ex bumped noses, it was funny but cute. If you make a mistake you could aalways try again. It's not like your first kiss is your last kiss.

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    Yeah i agree, its not like you first kiss is the last but you will always remember it the most.

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    Most important tip...stay in school! Don't fret so much over BOYS...you have plenty of time for that later.

    On this topic...as someone else said it's just natural. When it happens you'll be alright...it just comes to you.

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    When you do it you'll know it. Just let go of all your fears and go for it.
    And I agree for sure it is the most memorable. Cause I don't think I'll ever forget mines....

  • SeXiiE LaDiiE
    18 years ago

    thanx for all of the "advice" i did get that
    IT COMES NATURALLY! so thank you. i see him again tonite so hopefully itll b ok! thanx!!

  • SplitSided
    18 years ago

    there isn't a such thing as a perfect first kiss...jus try not to look like a retard while ya do it...that's the best way to go about it...and don't jump in to where your over your head...goodluck with that

  • Sar
    18 years ago

    just go with the flow. if you love each other like you say then neither of you should mind if it isnt quite right, and if it is a bad kiss then just say"lets try it like this" and change the way youre doing it, but it does come naturally just relax itll be fine and dont worry about how you are kissing because he might pick up on it

  • Tainted Beauty
    18 years ago

    close your eyes...it's rude to stare.

    make sure you don't bump teeth...that kind of hurts.

    make sure you don't have bad breathe...icky.

    don't be too forceful(example: shoving your tongue down his throat)

    be sure to swallow, no one likes emerging from a kiss with slobber all over their faces.

    breathe through your nose, not your mouth, it will feel like a vacuum.

    Ill add more if i think of anything, good luck and don't worry about it. Everyone will have their first kiss and the guy probably won't even notice.

  • Sar
    18 years ago

    most people put their head to the right

  • Matthew A.
    18 years ago

    the time will be right...it was for me...a good time is when you'll have to go different ways and a kiss goodbye is a good way to tell that person that you will always think of them...

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    My ex used to suck on my bottom lip and i loved it. Kissing is so fun.

  • Poetic Tragedy08
    18 years ago

    There really is no tips on kissing. everyone loves different ways. lemme give you this tip though. DONT have your first kiss be your first make out session. thats a problem my friend made. just get one kiss and let it sink in that you kissed a person you love on the lips. then when the time is right and you go for more then just the peck on the lips, dont forget to swallow. if you forget to then it'll be a complete mess and keep your eyes closed. hoped that helped!!

  • ღ»Lσιѕ«ღ
    18 years ago

    My first kiss i was 13 in a 1/2 and i was kissing this 19 year old i was so flipping nervous!! but he knew it was my first kiss so he kinda showed me and had me follow him!!!

  • Cryss
    18 years ago

    itll all pretty much come to you. its all in the instinct package. dont worry. a first kiss is scary but it'll be fine. :D

  • Alexa
    18 years ago

    My first kiss was with somebody I had met like 10 mintues before. It was great though. For my first kiss I was complimented. I was 12 years old and he was 16 years old I think. It was great thought but i have to admit if I could do that all over agian and with someone else i would.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    I've never been kissed, but I imagine that once your lips hit his, you'll just automatically know what to do. It'll probubly be awkward, but just nice none-the-less haha...
    Also, make sure it's with someone who you reallycare about and someone who really cares about you, like a boyfriend and not just a "friends with benefits" because then there's not gonna be any commitment and he could just get up and leave anytime he finds someone else. Make sure it's good and if it doesn't feel right... Don't do it =)

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    Just practice a lot.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    ^ I don't think kissing is a rutine (ok I can't spell that word lol) that you can do 100% on. I disagree with the fact about how you should 'practise' kissing. It just seems wrong and sooner or later the kiss won't be new and fun anymore, it will be old and played out. A kiss is not perfect, but it is a perfect act of love

  • Live, Laugh, Love
    18 years ago

    Ok there aren't many tips for Kissing just Try not to bite him. Swallow all your spit before you start kissing him. Noone really likes a wet kiss. Umm have fun And most of all if your not ready to do it dont Try to remember your first kiss because I don't remember mine and its really kind of sad. The only kiss i really remember is with my guy now and thats because I was in love with him before we started dating. Just be comfortable have fun and it does come naturally.

  • xxDevangelxx
    18 years ago

    Just take it slow and let him lead...trust me it jut happens lol sounds weird but everyone kisses differently and thats why its always scary kissing a new guy for the first time! GOOD LUCK xx

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    You'll know what to do when it happens. With my first kiss, I was so scared. But once it was over and done with, It wasn't that bad. Lol..

  • Kirstie
    18 years ago

    follow him and go with it. dont build it up too much though and make sure it is with someone you want to remember. you dont want to regret it, regret that THAT was your first kiss, because you cant get it back. but dont worry, it'll end up being even better than you ever expected.

  • Kirstie
    18 years ago

    follow him and go with it. dont build it up too much though and make sure it is with someone you want to remember. you dont want to regret it, regret that THAT was your first kiss, because you cant get it back. but dont worry, it'll end up being even better than you ever expected.

  • Kirstie
    18 years ago

    follow him and go with it. dont build it up too much though and make sure it is with someone you want to remember. you dont want to regret it, regret that THAT was your first kiss, because you cant get it back. but dont worry, it'll end up being even better than you ever expected.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    jus follow his lead with it..
    it kinda does feel little strange at first feeling his lips on yours but jus follow his lead..
    if it make u feel beta tell him it is then he will hopefully be ok with it n take lead etc..
    but dont worry bout it once u kissed him u wont wanna stop.. and it will be better every time u kiss so chill n let him take the lead then with out realising youll prob take the lead the nxt time dont worry its a great feeling..
    enjoy it!

  • johnnys_princess
    18 years ago

    take your thumb and your fist finger and pinch together sideways on it looks like lips with an open mouth practic on that, dont worry its not as daunting as it seems

  • Poetess Lana
    18 years ago

    well... practice makes better... and my first kiss was supposed to be a stage kiss in a play... YEAH the guy was SUPER hot!!! but thats beside the point... anyway... ive kissed a little since then...

    umm... if he tries to shove his tongue down your throat, back away. and smile. then lightly lip touch lol.