1st kiss

hmmm.. i suggest you discover the fun of it on your own.. cause thats what makes it real and sincere!

Hey girl,
Most guys dont even notice when it is your first kiss. So dont be nervous and dont be scared because i am sure that you will love it once you start kissing him. I was going out with a guy once and he was my first and he never swallowed before we started making out, so one day i told him that he needed to swallow and he said ok and thanx for telling me. Me and him are over thank God. After we broke up i realized how disgusting he is. Ewww. Now i am dating a wonderful guy named Brandon and he is the love of my life. We are both going to Culinary College(Cooking). I have not kissed him yet, and we have been going out for 3 months already. But i havent seen him in like 3 weeks though, but i am going to get my license today so i can go and see him occasionally. I am alittle scared to kiss him because every time i look at him and look into his eyes, i want to go for it but i dont think he is ready. I love him. When i got kissed for the first time i loved it until i noticed that i didnt like him anymore. Now brandon on the other hand is so much better.

wow, yeah, almost everything i can think of has been said, except... dont be scared to try new things. if you read something somewhere, or something, idk, all i know is that my guy loves it when i try new stuff, but stick to the basics first. my first kiss was when i was 12, from my best friends 16 year old brother. i was so scared, but he ended up thinking id done it before. heres a few tips ive gathered:

1) dont shove your tongue in too deep. its uncomfortable.
2)dont just let your hands flop at your side, put one on the back of his neack or something
3) breathe thru your nose, or you'll suction to him. thats the only way i know how to describe it, sorry.lol
4) close those eys and turn your head so you dont bump noses
5) smile afterwards
6) after youve gotten the hang of it, take the lead.
7) change speed

thats all i got, hope it helps!

oh yeah, never bite down. owee!

AWWW HOW CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!

my first kiss ...hmmm...
i had no idea but he guided me through
it. IT was great..

bleedingblackroses pretty much covered the guidelines...i will accentuate

1) don't stick your tongue very far in, you don't want to choke him
2) try not to lick around his lips too much the first time, then it just gets really wet and messy and you have to keep wiping your face
3) close your eyes damnit! you don't want to look cross-eyed
4) tilt your head SLOWLY one way, so he knows to tilt his head the opp. way
5) don't stick your tongue in right away, you have to kiss with your lips a little bit first then slowly touch with your tongue and hope that he leads
6) don't go crazy with your tongue, you want to massage his tongue..not attack it
7) breathe through your nose or else you'll gag
8) be gentle
9) do something wtih your hands...have them wrapped around his stomach area...or have one behind his neck or massaging his head (but not hungrily) just be nice and slow and romantic
10) to stop the kiss, put your tongue back in your mouth before leaning back...give a final kiss on the lips (which says, ok DONE!) and then lean back just a little bit and look into his eyes and smile
11) if he makes you feel uncomfortable, punch him in the face.

*sigh* i messed up my first kiss.. but my bf loves it.. hahaha.. it was a wet, eewwy, mushy kissy..

mine was a friday night out drinking at 16 and he was 15......about 8 of us went to the beach to get drunk and we all ended up playing spin the hut.... he could tell i was nervous so he shook my hand (aww) the second time he hugged me (bless) and then third time lucky we kissed, i was so happy i nearly fell over(well that could of been the drink) looking back i think he was as nervous as me and was building up to it-my girlie friends had told me later that night that i was his first too and that made me smile even more....i had butterflies in my tummy the whole time!

now i only kiss my present boyfriend and i have butterflies all the time while im with him....he's great.

october xx

LOL...I MY FIRST KISS WAS WIT MY SONS DAD NOW... 6 YEARS AGO...WOW....I FELT THE SAME WAY..I WOULDN KISS HIM FOR THE LONGEST!! HE WAS ALWAYS ASK ME AND I WOULD ALWAYS JUS SAY NO OR WHY...
BUT ITS JUS SOMETHIN THAT REALLY COMEZ TO YOU...ESPECIALLY WEN ITS WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE...EVERYTHING WILL JUS BE RIGHT..

theres no tips..when you kiss you don't even think about it you just do it and the rest falls into place.