How far would you go?!?!?!?

How far would you go for someone you love and have you ever gone to far? I know I have gone pretty far for a guy i thought i loved but really dident. I wonder how far i would of went if I really did love him.

I'd go as far as I felt comfortable..I've learnt my lesson the hard way!! I have gone too far with a guy but he kept on pressuring me, and although i kept saying no he kept on and on. But when I met my now boyfriend he didn't pressure me at all..if i said no he would respect my desicion and not push me..I think respect is so important in a relationship..my ex certainly didn't respect me..thank god he's my ex!!

i have always felt something inside for my boyfriend but as im still at a young age people say im stupid but i would pick him over anything! but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated anymore! i really dont know what to do either?? im to deep to finish it but scared......

I don't really understand the question? Do you mean physically? I'd go as far as my girlfriend feels comfortable, which over the course of my dating experience ranged from holding hands to having sex.

Are you talking about emotionally? I don't think there is a problem is becoming totally emotionally involved with someone, so long as you're ready to accept the consequences of your commitment...Namely pain. That isn't necessarily pain from a break up, but also pain from being apart and pain from fights (it's worth it though).

Clarify your question.

You can take the question how ever you want to take it. Anyways i found that when i was younger i would like do anything it took for my guy but now that i am older and am learing a lot of life lessons i wont go as far. The guys should meet me half way you know.

... I still can't tell whether you're talking physically or emotionally. Oh well, in either case, I figure romantic things should involve both people, whether it is physical or emotional, so I guess I agree with you regardless of what you're talking about.

I am talking both ways. It is kind of funny thinking back on what i have done and thinking to myself how crazy and dumb i was back then expecially when that person dont even mean that much to me anymore. We barley even talk. I quess we both just moved on.

Even if i was "in love" i wouldn't go that far because i want to wait. I don't think it's appropriate to go too far unless you're a certain age.

i'm with punksunite, i'd take it slow and easy if i wanted a relationship

I'm having trouble with this "I thought I loved him" - I don't think it works like that. I "BELIEVE" you just know. If it is, it is. If it's not, it's not...YOU JUST KNOW. For me there has never been an in between. I've fallen in love twice. Once when I was 15...spending five years with him. I did anything and everything to make us work...to make him happy. I've found someone again and for him I'd do anything. When you truly love someone you'll go to the ends of the earth for them. That's not strictly in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships - I feel this way about EVERYONE I love. EVERYONE I hold close to my heart. Although there will complete strangers that I do extraordinary things for. I don’t think there is a way to go too far or doing too much. If you’re doing it there MUST be a reason…if it’s love…it’s worth it.

For some reason I thought you meant...something else. You're talking about sexual interaction? Hmmmm...well, I won't share that on the internet. The fairies might zap me. SORRY! lol

^lol..i agree though. When you love someone, you just know. There is nothing to think about.

it takes two to tango...both of you have different comfort levels...you have to find those 2 levels and get on the same page...that's the way that i see it...you don't wanna be on page 6 and the other on page 3 1/2 it don't work like that...nah ya gotta talk bout it...if it was someone that i loved...i would talk to them about it and see where they were and compare it to where i was...so we can reach a safety point without crossing it...until we were both ready...anyway..there's my 2 cents..

i was not talking sexual

Ok...you cleared that up...my first answer stands...

lol You and I were on the same page but everyone else was some where else.

If you love someone, you'll always go too far. Just because you love that person so much that you will do everything for him(/her)..
You're blinded
and when you have crossed the line, you'd probably even won't notice it, until it's too late..

There isn't a too far for me...with certain people of couse. Like my mother...there isn't a "too far" for her...I'd KILL for that woman.

I need to make sure I don't cross your mother.

You know my very own sister did ONE time...and I swear to you I felt like a mass murderer as I was beating her about the head and body. There is nothing more precious in this world to me than my mother and I don't care WHO IT IS that hurts her...I'm going after them.

only go as far as you feel comfortable, because if you go any further than what you feel is comfortable or you think that you won't regret. because you'll fell like a complete slut if you go to far.

She wasn't talking about sex...get your mind out of the gutter!! You're too young for that!!

Okay a couple of years ago i meet this guy who like changed the way i thought and acted becasue i liked him sooooo much. I experenced some 1st and 2nd based things with him and my mom found out and we were not allowed to hang out anymore and i did everything in my power to see him and eventually she let me hang out with him again and then some more things happed and we were not allowed to hang out again. I swear this happend three or four times. We are allowed to hang out again but the thing was i moved on and now when i think back on all the things i did just to be with him, i shake my head thinking i was so dumb. I WAS BLINDED!!! LOL