What do i do people?

  • Monica AKA Mika
    18 years ago

    alright theres this girl and she was going out with this guy and i talk to the girl but were not totally close but anyway i got to know this guy and i really like him a lot and about 3 days ago they broke up and we started talking i mean TALKING all day monday (memorial day) we were talking and if we had to hang up on eachother it would be maybe 10 min before i wouold talk to him again but i do really like him and usually i date only black guys and hes white but he is everything i have looked for in a black guy but in a white guy! WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • ~*Nicki*~
    18 years ago

    I think you should go for it. If it makes you feel better talk to your friend about it but dont hold back on something you feel so strongly about because you will regret it in the end. Hope everything turns out good for ya.

  • laura
    18 years ago

    i totally agree! because surely your friend will take it good because it sounds to me you have strong feelings for him but he also has these feelings for you. so i would go for it and dont forget real freinds follow your actions not destroy them! good luck x

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    I'm not really sure why you bothered mentioning whether he was black or white, that doesn't seem to make a difference to anyone here, and it doesn't seem to matter to you all that much either. If you're worried about his ex, well they broke up.

    I'd only warn you about the possible rebound effect, and that you shouldn't let your intense feelings for him rush you into things too quick. I mean, date him if you want, but the best advice I can give on relationships is that (for me, anyway) the ones that took their time are the ones that lasted longer and went deeper.