what shal i do??

i went over my ex boyfriends house last night with my freind, but i had to meet my boyfriend that night aswell. we all went back to my ex boyfriends house but it seemed to me, my boyfriend liked my friend more than me, he couldnt keep his eyes off her, but she couldnt stop talking about him on the way home but she kept saying that she doesnt like him or anything like that, and last night he kept telling me im the best thing that ever happened to him and that he loves me! what shall i do???

Well, I'd do the right thing and trust your boyfriend. If you don't have trust then I don't know what the point of your relationship would be. Relationships don't have a future if the people won't believe in one another. If he ends up hurting you, then it wasn't meant to be, and it wasn't your fault.

yes your right thankyou

yes but my boyfriend will take it as i dont trust him, as i thought he was cheating on me before, but i really dont know what to do? even my ex boyfriend noticed it.

You were 14 just 20 minutes ago...did 3 years pass by me that fast? Oh man...I'm losing my mind!! HAHA

LMFAO

right so everyone knows i am not 14! my sister done this account for me and put her date of birth in ! so i am not a young little teenager! now will you tell me what to do please?

"so i am not a young little teenager!"

Hate to break it to you but...you really are!

If you don't feel like listening to Natalie and Sunny, then why don't you go ahead and read the other posts that gave you more than enough advice to deal with this situation.

Mom would FLIP OUT.

I have been in that situation many times with my best friend Sarah, expecially when we have had a lot of the same boyfriends because of it. It happened just like that too.

There's no need to judge all young teens. After all you were once one yourself. You make it sound as if all of us young teens are clueless when it comes to love. My cousin, who is now 18, has been together with her b/f since they were 13 going on 14. Relationships are built on love and trust. With those two things, a relationship can last for years.

Punk...Your cousin is one out of how many that you know? Hmmmm...I haven't heard very many situations such as hers. I too fell in love at a young age...but as most young relationships do mine fell apart five years later. I'm not dogging all young teens. I'm dogging a CHILD having sex. I lost my virginity when I was 14 years old. Sadly now, I regret it. I wish I had waited...it's a shame when you look back and can only wish you'd done things differently. Instead of jumping on someone for sharing their opinion maybe you should embrace it as it comes from experience. Now if you want to go sleeping around and catching STD's and chancing pregnancy then by all means do what YOU WANT...but don't criticize anyone's opinion nor their attempt to "help" a child asking "WHAT SHE SHOULD DO" -- she asked...and she got answers and good ones at that.

Woah...slow down. I didn't mean it Offensively. I was just putting my opinion in as well. I don't plan on losing my virginityanytime soon. I understand that my cousin is one in a million, but i wanted people to know that it's possible to find love as a young teen. If you're the type of person who wants to be in a relationship that doesn't involve intimacy as a teen, you can. My cousin and her b/f havn't gone any further then kissing. I look up to her. I was not criticizing your opinion. I just thought i'd put some of my thoughts about young teens on here. Sorry if i made it seem like i was criticizing your personal opinion.

Slow down? I wasn't going fast!! Look officer I SWEAR I wasn't speeding...I got 2 tickets last month and my insurance is SKY HIGH I wouldn't have done it again!!! OH!! Sorry for the flash back!! (What sucks is that is TRUE!!) LMAO

I wasn't being rude, if that's how --I-- came across I'll be a big girl and apologize...so I'm sorry! ;)

I KNOW that young teens can find love in their puppy love relationships and if I were them I'd cherish that till the day I died. I think it's AWESOME! It would be a beautiful thing! If what you say about your cousin is true she is one lucky girl and I respect her AND him in a million ways! That is something anyone would envy.

And it's funny....you brought a smile to my face when you said you wouldn't be giving your "goods" up any time soon! GOOD FOR YOU!!! That's refreshing to hear.

lol...well if i gave you a ticket, it would be a nice add to your collection. I understand what you were getting at. I normally like hearing flashbacks from those with more expierience. We all have regrets, it's apart of life. Trust me, i may be young, but i understand. I'm glad you decided to be a big girl and apologize lol, but you didn't need to. My cousin is a sweet person. I would have made a lot of bad choices if it weren't for her *tear*. Haha.."goods", i love that. I know too many people that are my age and younger that are giving their "goods" up. It really upsets me. Knowing that i can't stop those millions of teens losing their virginity everyday. I know if i could stop them, i would. One of my friends lost her virginity last year at the age of 14 as well, and like you she regrets it. I was so pissed at her, but i knew i couldn't change what had been done.