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  • Bekah Danzer
    18 years ago

    I need a poem about a guy who i thought really cared for me. I got pregnant and I'm having twins.Well one of them is stuck in my tube and i have to abort that one. The other one is ok were pretty sure but the doctor says I can abort that one if I want to. He says he isn't ready for a child but he doesn't agree with abortions. What should I do? I told him I would get one done. I don't want to. But he is right he isn't ready for a child. He always says he is going to be there and he is usually, but now lately since I told him I'm pregnant he has started to not do what he says. I want to let him know how much he is hurting me. Please write it back here on the post thank you

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    erm...well er...If there's a chance the other one will survive, abortion would be murder. sorry, that's my opinion. I have my reasons. this guy obviously needs to work out his own issues. maybe he will man-up when the time approaches..or you make your final decision. or maybe he won't. you probably shouldn't be making all your decisions around him though, as he doesn't sound very reliable.

    do what you think is best. for you. do you rely on him financially? if so, is there any way you could get out of that? do what you know you can live with.

  • johnnys_princess
    18 years ago

    do whats best for you absolutely, whatever decision you make you will have to live with for the rest of your life. i have had an abortion and i have a son i made the right descision both times for me. think about it long and hard don't make any rash descisions this will effect the rest of your life. take care, email me if you wanna chat lynne
    nuthouse50@hotmail.co.uk

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    I know that it would be horribly painful to have to rear a child you were not ready for (at least I think I do, after all, I have had to babysit a monster of a niece...)
    But what I'm saying is that you have these babies (baby) for a reason. Don't kill someone simply because you feel insecure. All women are mothers inside, in nature you would not actually be given the chance to abort, you would have these babies, and you would survive.
    I can imagine that it will break apart all your sparkling dreams, but please, don't kill your child.

    //T.L.//

  • HOLLY ARMER
    18 years ago

    My advice to you is to have the baby and when that time comes if you still don't feel ready put the baby up for adoption. Aborting one baby (even though it has to be done) is gonna be hard enough on you emotionally, but knowing in your heart that the other baby could've been born but you didn't allow it will be even harder to face.
    There are so many people in this world who can not have children and want them. I'll never understand why people have abortions at all!
    Oh and women raise children by themselves everyday, don't let some guy make your decision for you. Look to yourself for the answer!

  • Liquid Dreams
    18 years ago

    don't choose abortion.
    my mom got pregnant from some boyfriend when she was 18, and she had an abortion. that would've been my brother or sister! being an only child, i've wanted, hoped, prayed, and begged for a sibling my whole life. my parents were going to keep the secret of the abortion from me forever, but i found something that said my mom had had one, and it hurt so much. i would do anything to have that sibling! anything! but i can't change her mistakes...and her mistakes have been many...

    so please don't choose abortion. abortion is murder, and although people make it seem okay, it is very wrong. have the baby, and once it's born you can decide whether you want to keep him/her, or let someone who will love him/her and take care of them adopt them.
    if you abort them, will you regret this later? will your future children regret this like i have? lots of people want children in this world, but they can't have them. why kill/abort your baby instead of giving them to someone who would appreciate them? it's your choice...choose wisely.