Bekah Danzer
18 years ago
I need a poem about a guy who i thought really cared for me. I got pregnant and I'm having twins.Well one of them is stuck in my tube and i have to abort that one. The other one is ok were pretty sure but the doctor says I can abort that one if I want to. He says he isn't ready for a child but he doesn't agree with abortions. What should I do? I told him I would get one done. I don't want to. But he is right he isn't ready for a child. He always says he is going to be there and he is usually, but now lately since I told him I'm pregnant he has started to not do what he says. I want to let him know how much he is hurting me. Please write it back here on the post thank you |
AGirlWorthFightingFor
18 years ago
erm...well er...If there's a chance the other one will survive, abortion would be murder. sorry, that's my opinion. I have my reasons. this guy obviously needs to work out his own issues. maybe he will man-up when the time approaches..or you make your final decision. or maybe he won't. you probably shouldn't be making all your decisions around him though, as he doesn't sound very reliable. |
johnnys_princess
18 years ago
do whats best for you absolutely, whatever decision you make you will have to live with for the rest of your life. i have had an abortion and i have a son i made the right descision both times for me. think about it long and hard don't make any rash descisions this will effect the rest of your life. take care, email me if you wanna chat lynne |
Truest Lies
18 years ago
I know that it would be horribly painful to have to rear a child you were not ready for (at least I think I do, after all, I have had to babysit a monster of a niece...) |
HOLLY ARMER
18 years ago
My advice to you is to have the baby and when that time comes if you still don't feel ready put the baby up for adoption. Aborting one baby (even though it has to be done) is gonna be hard enough on you emotionally, but knowing in your heart that the other baby could've been born but you didn't allow it will be even harder to face. |
Liquid Dreams
18 years ago
don't choose abortion. |