Plz help me i'm a dasaster

Plz help me!!! Ok heres the thing. I got in a huge fight with my best friend. She mad at me because I took one day to hang out with a friend of mine cause she was going through a hard time, and my best friend hates that girl. I don't know. I've tried everything, talking to her was a big waste of time. She just ignored me and had her friends shove me around. I tried saying sorry but she just kept saying i don't care i hate you. She has been a completely different person lately. I just ran to the bathroom and broke in tears cause it hurt me so bad to hear my best friend say she hated me cause it was the first time and trying to shove me out of her life. After 4 years of best friends it hurts. I'm just a mess right now thinking what have i done, how can i make up for it. plz help me i can't help but breaking into tears right now. PLz help!! i'm scared i'll lose my best friend, the only person who really understands me. plz help

well if she is the only person who understands you, she shouldnt get mad at you trying to help a friend. even if she hates the girl.

"Best friends" don't exist. They all get bored in the end.

leave her a note... and wait it out. if she doesn't care and still hates you, you can find a new best friend. YOU are your best friend. YOU understand yourself better than anyone else does.

Your spelling is a disaster for starters...

Anyhoo onto your problem, your friend sounds a lil possessive on a serious note i think you need to set her straight and let her know you have other friends you care for as well, not just her and if she needed you in the same way you would be there in a similar sense for her...just lay it down to her if doesnt like to share you with other mates Id reassess the friendship altogether...

And Kim perhaps you dont believe in as much because you dont have any yourself, afterall the only way to have a friend is to be one and your ignorance speaks volumes...nasty.

I disgaree with Kim, but if this girl was your best friend, she would never say she hates you. What kind of friend is that? If she can't respect that you care about your other friends and want to be there for them, she's not a true friend. If you really don't want to lose her friendship, sit her down and talk to her. Tell her to listen because what you have to say is important. If she doesn't even take the time to listen to one thing you say, she's not worth the tears. True friends won't hurt you, they will stick by you.

"And Kim perhaps you dont believe in as much because you dont have any yourself, afterall the only way to have a friend is to be one and your ignorance speaks volumes...nasty."

No it's just my experience. I have been a friend and considering you don't -know- me, I suggest you don't make assumptions. As said before, I am entitled to my opinion.

hey im kate i would just to relaxe i know its hard but if shes really ur best freind like u say then shell come around and im sure u dont want to hear that u have to wait for her but u do theres nothing more u can do. if u need someone to talk to find me ill be around dont be a stranger
kate

I dont need to know you - to be quite frank I dont wish to know you I have seen the negativity you spread around these forums, you have a real nasty streak Kim alot of the time where its not even justified. Your right though you are entitled your own opinion and I respect that, perhaps you should learn some new and improved ways of diplomatically communicating your opinions so they appear more valid and less uneducated and rude to others.

If she was your best friend she would be helping you not tearing you down! Would you really call her your best friend? But just talk to her there might be another reason to her anger like some problem at home or somewhere else and she might be taking it out on you talk to her!!! And God will always understand you!!! Even when you are the worst you can ever be!!!! He is always there for you pray about and ask him to help you threw it!!! This might not mean much to you but i will keep you in my prayers!!! Hope everything turns out right! keep me notified!!! Laters Lil M......