How do you know your in love with the right guy?

Um ok im confused ... theres this guy who says he loves me and he doesnt want anyone else in his life but he also lives 4 hours away from me .... I think i love him with all my heart i just dont want to be hurt , i dont want to go through the crying and heartbreaking again . I tell him that everyday that i love him and i dont want to lose him .... can you help me learn to know if im in love with the right guy or not.... thanx Jen

if you're truly in love you already know just by posting this i can tell you don't know and well if he's right for you you would know he's imperfections you'll love you'll rise anything for him that just my opinion my view on love just find your way through

No one can tell u whether ur in love with the right guy, only u will know, obviously u dont.. but i suppose time will tell? Give him a chance and see how things go. I know how u feel about not wanting to go through all the heartbreak and everything though... I find it hard to trust guys because of all the shit i've been through with guys in the past... But remember not every guy is the same, theres the right one out there for u somewhere. Even if u find it hard to trust him, or to believe that u wont end up hurt, dont be too paranoid about it because trust me it will drive him away. I've made that mistake too many times before and at the end of it its gonna hurt u to know that it was ur insecurities that drove him away.

Well if your asking other people this question the answer should be pretty clear...

If you loved him, you wouldn't be asking other people. Only you can know when you love someone. ^I agree that if you have to come and ask us, the answer is pretty obvious.

I'm agreeing with the last two posters...

Besides, if you love him, then you'll be willing to risk everything for him. It's just how love goes.

if you love him, you love him. its as simple as that. and 4 hours isnt too bad. mine lives in pennsylvania and i live in minnesota. ;) but yea.. if you doubt the fact that you love him then your probably dont.