I am soo confused!!!

ok i need help, i am in a great relationship, my boyfriend Wyatt loves me more than anything. but there is only one problem... i love him but i dont think im in love with him. i still ahve hard feelings for my ex Kevin and it drives me crazy because it has been4 months since we broke up and i am not over him. it makes it hard because he tells me he still has feelings for me, but we need to take time to see if were supposed to be together. and then when i saw kevin today he kept telling me he misses me!! I love Wyatt and he is so in love with me. is trying to be with kevin worth loosing a great guy and breaking him apart??? i am so confused please help!!!

p.s. i want to apologize for taking the first comment wrong, im sorry!!!

If your not over your ex, why pursue a relationship with someone else period, give yourself time to move before you jump into another relationship...grow up a lil perhaps start to manage your feelings and hormones before you find yourself in a situation where you have to carelessly hurt someone who really doesnt deserve it.

dont worry bout her dear. i have the saaame problem. well i suppose its slightly different but the same general idea. i was going out with my ex for like say...a year or so. then he broke up with me becuase of personal things in his life and he didnt want to be tied down..and so on..and he didnt want to talk about it. anyways..time passed and i started going out with another guy and he was the sweetest person anyone could ever hope to have as a boyfriend. and he was..or should i say is, totally in love with me. and i like him..alot..but i am in love with my ex. i mean..come on right? we had our kids names picked out. But my advice to you is go over your experiences with both guys..if its possible that you and your ex could break up for the same reason, then dont go for it. stay with the one that loves you. but if you really are in love with your ex and cant bear the thought of being with someone else..then maybe you should get back together with him. i mean..why spend years on the wrong guy, right? mkay. thats all the advice i can give.

I agree with Eibutsina, she's not being a ____, she's just being honest. If you want advice, don't take it to heart when people give it to you.

ok heres what i think. they are both right it is way not worth leading this guy on wyatt if you still love kevin but also its not worth crying every not to know you will never have him my advise take a break from guys just let them come to you and enjoy your time being young. if it is ment to be it is ment to be.

keep the talent keep the faith keep the abilty to write beautifully

laura