Can't Break It To Him.

I'm horrible with breaking up with guys, I always try to do something or ignore them so THEY break up with ME.

Okay, so this guy I only went out with for about 2 weeks still likes me and has no clue that I DO NOT like him at all anymore. I'm not sure why, there's just no 'spark'. But I try to ignore him, I don't really talk to him or anything and I never answer his calls but he STILL likes me a lot.

Since I'm bad at breaking up with guys, what should I do to break it to him and not really hurt his feelings or anything?

--Oh and I think another part of the reason I don't like him anymore is because I like this other guy, but I don't want to ask him out because; I mean I am friends with him and everything and I talk to him, but--I think he likes another girl.. =[

HELP PLEASE.

If he likes you, there isn't going to be any way to do that without hurting him a bit. I think that if you say things straight out instead of trying to treat him badly, it will work out better - he'd be less confused that way, and that is probably kinder.

Well, to be honest.

There is no way you can tell him without hurting him. So it's best that you tell him soon, instead of dragging him along a slow painful hurt. He is probably home wondering why you aren't answering his calls, and that can be hurtful. So you should tell him ASAP, and get it over with. At least that way you are honest with him

Another thing, 'sparks' don't happen. They are created. (I believe at least) It's like the 'thing' that you guys do that made you 'click'. If you understand what I'm saying. 'Chemistry' is something you might be lacking, where he likes you more than you like him. The inbalance is what the chemistry is. A 'spark' is something different.

Yeah I should just break up with him, but I don't have the courage to tell him because I don't want him to hate me because all of my ex's either don't talk to me at all or hate me and call me a whore and stuff; even the ones that broke up with ME.

But I don't want to be mean to him and just make him feel bad and hurt.

Well, honestly I'm not sure you can have him as a friend and not date him right away. I think that he might not hate you, but he probably won't be talking to you for a bit, it'd be hard for him to be around him. It's just a price you're going to have to pay for wanting out, or well a price you'd both have to pay, I suppose.