What do I do??

  • ♥ no_one_knows ♥
    18 years ago

    Ok so my ex suddenly wanted me back, and since I love him more than anything, I said yes. We will be seeing eachther a lot more than the frst time we went out. But the problem is that one of his best friends likes me a lot too and asked me out. I said not to him, but still feel bad. Now he knows I'm dating his friend, and he's kinda pissed @ both of us. They are losing their friendship over me. My bf says he cares more about me than his friend but I still hate that I'm coming between them. What do i do???

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    let it ride... do what your doing now and see what happens your boyfriends friend is a retard to throw away his friendship... just wait and see what happens it seems pretty earlier in you little plot to do anything big

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    ^^^^^^^^^
    He's right, the friend should've known better to go after a girl that his friend dated anyway. He should have more respect than that. But hey, if it don't work out between you and your boyfriend, then you'll know where to turn, right???

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    I have to agree. The friend has no right to get mad at you guys because if HE was a good friend...he never would of gone after HIS friends ex. That just shows how immature he is.

    Stay with your boyfriend. If he loses an immature friend then so be it. His friend will relize it someday and come back. And if he doesn't...then he's not a good friend to have around anyway.

  • ASHLEY ANN
    18 years ago

    WELL YOU NEED TO LET IT GO IF YOUR X IS THE ONE YOU WANT TO WITH THEN BE WITH HIM YOU MAY FEEL BAD BOUT HIS FRIEND BUT HIS FRIEND WILL GET OVA IT...BUT
    OK
    IM HAVING BOYFRIEND TROUBLE MYSELF MY BOYFRIEND ACTS LIKE HE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH ME NE MORE BUT I CANT LEAVE HIM I LUV HIM BUT WHEN I ASK HIM WUTS GOING ON WUTS THE DEAL DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME OR NOT HE SAYS YEAH HE DOES BUT ITS LIKE WHEN WE TALK ITS FOR 30 MIN OR LESS N HE ALWAYZ SAYS ILL CALL YOU BACK BUT NEVER DOES WUT DO I DO

  • ♥ no_one_knows ♥
    18 years ago

    Thank u guys for all ur advice! it really helps.

    and about ur boyfriend...i know it might be hard to leave him because u love him but if he doesn't want to be with u then i think ur better off without him.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    That's similar to the situation i'm in. All i can say is that your ex's friend shouldn't be getting mad. He should let you be with your ex if it makes you happy. You should talk to them both and tell them how you feel. True friends don't ruin a friendship over something so stupid.