guys..please help

  • Kat
    18 years ago

    ok theres a guy who i'm dating we don't spend much no more like no time together , its not his fault he's going through a lot of shyt right now but the thing is i'm so sick of him blaming it on that stuff like he alologies and all but its driving me crazy...and at some point he needs to start realising its also his fault we're never together like i noe he tries but he could try a bit harder I reallly care about him, he means a lot to me and i don't wanna hurt him, but i dont think its gonna work out but i don't think i can dump him hes really sensitive and i don't want him to be any more depressed then he is, i really care about him like i've never cared about anyone this much before it would really kill em to know i hurt him but at the same time its hurting me....should i give it time or do you think its better to end it ?

  • Kat
    18 years ago

    ok,
    i really think maybe you should sit down and tell him exactly how you feel. maybe it needs time but what u need to do is put him aside and listen to ur heart, if you think that you can work throught this than dont leave him. but if he is being as stubborn as it seems maybe let him go. tell him that was hes saying is upsetting you and you dont need the negative comments in a relationship!!! basically girl, follow ur heart!!! hope i said something to help!!

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Wow....that was confusing...lol...two Kat's posting...I didn't understand at first...I guess what makes it even funnier...is that my name is Kat too. I just use a different name on here. Haha....good times.

    Anyway....I would wait it out. If he has a lot of shit going on then just try to be there for him. I know that it's hard, and some what annoying, but if you guys can pull eachother through whatever life throws you.....then things are good. If you run now....then you could lose something that could of been amazing. Ya know? Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Just let your feelings out, and let him let his out.

  • Lemon Square Bear23
    18 years ago

    well i think maybe there is really something going on i would just tell him that ur there for him and if wants to talk ur there n call him like every other nite n if he dosnt talk to u just kinda let it fade away so u daont have to break up w him and no body gets hurts i hope things work out n rember that its advise u dont have to take it
    -kat with an e hehehe