i really need some help real bad

aight the love of my life broke my heart and hurted my feelings so damn bad but i was so in love with him that i didn't want to move on so when i did move on the boy who i was going with i mean nothing was wrong with him it's just that i was starting to have the same feelings for him that i had for my first love and i didn't kno what to do so i just stop talking to him and never told him how i really felt about him so kno that my first love want to go back with me i away i want to go back with him but i really wanna tell the other boy i really feel about him but i just can't bcuz i think he don't wanna talk to me any more and i think that he hate me now but i really wanna be with so what should i do

I think you should some how tell the 2nd guy how you feel and get that off your chest, and figure out if you want your ex or not. Who ever will treat you better and wont break your heart your ex or the 2nd one... think about it, once you do tell the truth to either one then go on... but I think you should let your ex suffer... or maybe he's the true love who has returned. But then there is the other guy who can be better and the true love... I would say tell the 2nd guy and then think about who you want.

i deffinitly aguree with her kinda i know what ur going through i just figured out my pro. heres what i did the first broke ur heart once so what thinks he wont do it agian but if u were just tring to get over ur ex by going out w/out with another guy than that could be a prob but if u truely like him like the 1rst then i say go w/ the 2nd b/c the first just mite find someone 'better' or 'just wanna a break for awhile' but the 2nd was there for u kinda but just rember it just advise n u dont have to take it. kate

Well how could you of had the some feelings for both guys...not the tell the second guy...and run away from him...and then the want to get back together with the first one?

Personally....I think that your feelings for one of them are wrong....and you really need to figure out what is going on in your heart or you are going to hurt one of them. A lot.

the 2nd guy liked me for a year and some months while i was going with the first guy so when i got over the first guy thats when he told his friend that he liked me bcuz me and his bestfriend talk everyday at school and on the phone so he told me that he liked me then we started talking he's so sweet, loving, and caring, he make me wish that he was my first love it's just something about him that got me going crazy about him i wanna be with the 2nd guy bcuz i'll do anything to be with him i wanna tell him how i feel about him but i can't find away to tell him maybe bcuz i haven't said nothing to him since january everytime he see me he look at me like don't u have to tell me something but i don't kno how to tell him