How can you deal when you are in love with one guy but wish you

I am with this guy who is great to me. I love him and he loves me. Well before we started going out like when we were just talking there was this other guy that I liked and he wanted to have a little fun and well I knew that if I did I would not be with the love of my life. But now that I didn't do anything with that other guy I regret it. What does that mean is that bad please somebody give me some advice. How can I be in love with one guy and regret not doing anything with this other which could have screwed me being with the love of life up!!!!!!!!!

well i think that u really dont regrete i think that ur making urself want to regrete it b/c u wanted w/e he was gonna give for fun so i would just stay away from the guy who wanted fun but just rember its advise n u dont have to take it

-kate-

Well...if you regret not doing anything with this other guy....then are you not getting it from the guy that you are with? Because that might play a part in it.

Or maybe you have stronger feelings for the other guy...OR...you aren't ready to be tied down to just one person...and you still want to have fun.

If you regret not messing around with another guy and yet you say that you are with the love of you life....then maybe you really need to rethink the relationship you are in now.

Well I am really confused but i do love this guy that i am with but the fact that i am not getting anything from this other guy has nothing to do with it because i am getting some. i just don't know why?

Thanks for that advise. I really don't understand what you are saying but i am making myself regrete it.

What I'm trying to say is that if you are having regretful feelings for not messing around with an old crush/friend/whatever....and yet you are with the "love of your life"....then maybe you need to rethink your feelings.

Be happy with where you are right now...if you are with the man that you say is the love of your life...then why regret anything? Be happy!!! Live it up!!! And just don't think about it!!!