The only answer....

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Ok. I'm sorry...but it's getting really annoying reading the same thing over and over again...."what's wrong with him/her".

    The only answer to just about every relationship problem is TALKING. If your guy/girl is acting weird. TALK TO THEM!!!! If you feel as if something is wrong, ASK!!!! If they wont say I love you back...maybe they don't...maybe they are scared...if you want to know TALK ABOUT IT!!!!

    I'm sorry...I just had to get that out because personally...I'm tired of haveing the same thing to say to everyone...so I'm just going to get it out at once. If you have to come on a message board to ask what is wrong with your other half...then it's a lot more then you think because you have a big communication problem going on.

    JUST TALK TO THEM!!!!

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    ^^ Agreed.

    It's getting overplayed.

    Why don't some of you kids just judge for yourself? Are you gonna keep bugging us for help your entire life? You see, you are kids, you need our help. Life experiences are best handled when you make your OWN decisions. Come on, just ask yourself, "What would someone else in my position do?" and if you can't think of anything, then you can come ask. But at least TRY to help yourself.. TRY?..

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    ^^Agreed...too...

    I think totally screwing up a few times is in order. Maybe you'll learn some stuff while you're blowing off entire boxes of kleenex, it's an important life experience.

    Communication is one of those really important things that no one thinks about, but that everyone should be paying a lot more attention to.

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    You have to get hurt in order to know what happiness is. You have to have your heart torn out of your body and thrown into a meat grinder to know how love feels.

    These things come hand in hand. You can't have one without the other. If you get stuck on all the bad stuff....you will never get to enjoy the good stuff to the fullest!!!

    If you have questions about anything going on in your life with another person...you have to talk to them. Or else you are going to miss all the great stuff that can be going on.

    It's like that old saying...when one door closes...another one opens. I like to think that when one door closes....2 open.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    You can't truly appreciate the good if you haven't experiencd the bad, and you can't appreciate the love if you haven't experienced the hate...

    That's my opinion, anyways =)

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    ^ agreed