Stupidity....

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    I know as many things as I have read on this site about to young for sex...well yeah...I fell into a moment...
    Last Thursday...My crush and I went to hang out....Well it ended with us alone...behind a building...and yeah you get the point...Well now...we both dont know what to say...We arent dating...and not even supposed to have any relationship like that....i just cant beilieve it...and I want to at least date or something...I feel really bad about myself and I do regret it...but I just want to know why he wound talk to me...at all...I wish I would have not done it...yeah...

    I know there is no real question or point to this thread but i need to get so stuff out...and maybe someone who has been there can help me....

    Emma

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Well....if these are the feelings that you're having then maybe he is having the same thing go through his head. Ya know?

    And yeah...if it was behind a building....umm...that should be your first hint that it's not meant to be. I'm sorry. That is...as said before...cheap.

    If you regret it, then just push it to the back of your head and move on. Take the mistake, learn your lesson...and don't make the same one!!!

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    Funny...how last week I was a mean little bat and this week it turns out I WAS RIGHT!!! You're 17 and you lost your virginity behind a building, I would regret that too. I hope for your sake that (as Bob said) you use this as a learning tool and refrain from letting this type of thing happen again. A guy that is willing to sex you down behind a building is not the type of guy you want to date...at least I don't think. Take this as a lesson learned and hold yourself HIGHER than that from now on!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    Thanks eveyone...I understand what every one is saying...I know it was cheap...and I really have learned my lesson....

    Thanks again...
    Emma

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    How funny all you people think you can make judgement on the actions of others just because they are not what you perceive to be right actions for yourselves...tut tut

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    ...The person involved didn't think it was the right action either... Few people would think it was the right action... what are you tut tutting about?

  • Kat
    18 years ago

    i felt totally bad after a situation similar except it was in his bed but still..... i know how u feel! sadly me and that guy have talkedsince because wee ended up fighting:*( and now we arent friends anymore and he was my best friend! my advice to you dont do what i did. tell him how you feel but that if all else fails you still want a friendship open up ur heart but speak wisely. keep an open mind but remember..... if he comes back and it seems to be for the sex...... drop him girl!!!
    GOOD LUCK
    ~*KAT*~