How do i know when he loves me?

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    I can't tell if that question is as naive as I think it is....

    If he says he loves you, and you trust him, then that's as good as you're going to get.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    For starters you dont need confirmation from any one else if he really does love you...

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    You should just know. I know that sounds wierd, but he shouldn't have to constantly tell you over and over just for your confirmation. You can also tell by his actions, how he looks at you, talks to you and how he treats you. And not just treat in private but in public around his friends and stuff.

    But no one can really tell you who loves you or not. That's for you to decide if it's real and if you choose to believe it. Everyone loves differently, so don't go judge and compare other relationships. Just because he may not say it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Just listen to your heart and your own instinct. That was my opinion =)

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Also, if he's not treating you right, then it's just not right. If he's putting you through crap, it's not worth the time so.. I dunno.. either talk to him about it or just leave. You don't deserve havin bad stuff happen to you by your boyfriend. No one does.

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    You're 13 for crying out loud!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BE A KID!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    Love is something that you feel in your heart.

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    ^agree

    You're 13 seriously, that's no age to think about true, real, reality love. Maybe puppy love is more likely but, stick to making and being friends first. Leave the relationships for later.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Yeah, enjoy your youth. Growing up isn't that great.. I;ve only been getting a tatse of it lately and nothing compares to being a kid. You'll have plenty of time for love and when you wait it'll be even more special!

  • lish
    17 years ago

    Nobody can answer this question but you. but others can give you advice, if you have a feeling tghat he dosnt love you ask yourself why, and how can i fix that. he may love you but the problem might be do you love him?
    xx

  • Quiet Storm
    17 years ago

    I understand what your going threw i have had this problem many times and i'm only 15. Age has nothing to do with lobe by the way, your never too young for love and don't let no one ever tell you that. If it's to the point where you are crying all the time and your just unhappy with him then let it go like Keyshia Cole say. If you ever need to talk you can message me.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Love is a complicated thing. i thought i was in love with half the guys ive dated from age 13 to now... and heck, when i look back, it was nothing near it. now i'm with a steady, honestly loving boyfriend who treats me different then any of them ever did and it's opened my eyes to how naive i was.