My Boyfriend

Its hard for me to get along with my boyfriend of eight monthes. We constintly argue and fight about everything. Yet sometimes its as if we are in love more than anyone. I have eating disorders and depression. And I think my boyfriend has depression as well. We do get help for the depression. I just am dying to know what to do to make our relationship more, well, livable. My boyfriend is basically living at my house during the week and is living there on the weekends. I am in love with him and plan on spending my days with him. But I am sick of the fighting. Please help me with this I could use it!

I must agree!! Fix yourself before you try to fix someone else...and by you guys being together...all the time...you are trying to fix the other person as well as yourself.

Spend some time apart. Why at 14 are you guys in the same house? I think that that is a little messed up but that's just me. I'm not going to judge...but whats that all about?

After reading your post I was hoping to God that you'd at least be 18, but to no avail. Sunny is definitely right on this one.

^^ I agree. At 14, you shouldn't even be thinking about living with a guy.

This is just a recipe for DISASTER!!

ok ok i agree yet i dont "live" with him, hes just allways there.

=( i love him, he is my life. If i were to leave him, i wouldnt know what to do, i depend on his love to keep me going, i know im young, yet in love. i know it sounds funny.

You asked for help, right? Who are you trying to convince? Above is some advice. You can chose to take it or not, that's all there is to it. Don't make threads expecting a whole bunch of the answers you want to hear.

"My boyfriend is basically living at my house during the week and is living there on the weekends"

So is he living there or not? Because then you say that it isn't "living" there....he's just there all the time.

At 14...why in the world are you that dependent on someone? At 14 you should be learning how to stand up on yourself. You are getting ready to go into high school...if you haven't already strarted....things are going to change. Feelings will change, friends will change, and even your everyday activity will change.

I understand that you love him...not really a bad thing...but to lean on him so freakin much just to make yourself happy...THAT isn't healthy. You really need to be able to stand up on your own!!

You will fight less without him.