am i a bad person?

i'm going out with the most amazing guy ever. i love him to death. the problem is, that so does my friend. she's like him for over 5 years, and the first time i met him, i fell for him, and he liked me back. he never liked her, but she kept living in denial of it, it was actually kind of creepy. anyways, i feel completely guilty that i'm with him and she's not, though subconsciously i'm completely happy. i feel like the worst person. everyone else i know is congratualting me, because they said she had to find out sometime that it wasn't going to work, but i didn't want her to find out like this. what's your opinion, am i a bad person? tell me the truth.

No you are not a bad person. She needs to realize that he never liked her and if she was a friend she would like to see you happy.

If she was a true friend to you, and if she really "loved" him, then she would be happy for you two, I mean, she should be happy if he's happy, at least, right?

Don't worry about you being a bad person; the fact that you care about your friend's feelings shows that you are caring.

orange daisy.

Regarding this matter, I can't say that you a "bad person".

1. You are showing that you care if your friend is hurt, so, right there you are proving that you have fashionably good qualities.

2. If she is going to be childish about the situation, well, that is her problem. Yes, it would be understandable for her to be a little bit upset at first, but if it lingers, than she is being absolutely ridiculous. It's time for her to grow up, realize and face the inevitable. In my opinion, you are doing her a favour. Don't feel bad.

Kalika

Umm....I am in a situation where my friend is dating the guy I really liked! I am mad at her but it does NOT make her a bad person...you are not...

If you ever wanna talk about anything my email is salsa_sister_100@hotmail.com

Good luck and listen 2 ur heart x x x

lol, this might sound weird...but this reminds of the plot to the show "Mysterious Play or Fushigi Yugi"

If you meant for each other, than be happy. Your friend will have to learn to move on.

**That's one of the main obstacles some people will face in life....LOVE or FRIENDSHIP?

im pretty much goin through that right now..but im in the other girls postion...
and also were really not friends..so yea...
but really theres nothin u can do bout it...
im sad cuz of the position im in yea.but im happy for my ex(sons dad) so yea...
if ur happy than stay with him,
if ur not than don...
if ur not sure..than u better make up ur mind...
u don want to be in dout of ur relationship

is your name taylor?

because if it was then i'd have to laugh histerically because the same thing is happening to my x best friend, (used to love her to peices till she hurt me too badly) but this is the advice that i gave her.

you are not a bad person. you say your friend has liked him for OVER 5 YEARS, wow, honey she needs to get over him. i don't meen to sound horrible, but seriously she is practlilly obsesed. and i don't want to be mean, cuz the girl in my case who was the one like ur friend liked this kid for over 4 years and she was my friend to so i was kinda stuck in the middle cuz amber liked him for ever, and taylor (the one in ur position) is like inlove with this kid. it isn't ur fault she is obsessed!!

seriously if you need to talk more this is my email, seriously email me i'll email back, its nice to have a sort of out-sider's view...

deadforever88@yahoo.com

If she was a true friend she would be happy for yah.Mah opinion is no your not a bad person.

thanks :] and no... my name is not tylor. lol it's sonya :] thanks alot guys, and yeah, now she's going around saying he cheated on me with her on a certain day... when he was actually with me... I HATE DRAMA!!

No ur not a bad person hun your happy, ur friend means a lot to you I'm sure of that. But your really happy and you cant give up happiness. Talk to your friend and try to make her understand if she doesn't already.