PLease help

  • Monica AKA Mika
    18 years ago

    Just keep talking to them both and which ever one comes to you first and asks you then he was the one you were meant to be with!

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    ^ Not necessarily... Just because some stranger comes up to you on the street and asks you to have sex with him and he's the first person to have ever done that, does that mean that you're gonna go for it and that you two were meant to be together? NO!!! Anyone who would do such a thing is just a creep. I say just to wait. Later on it will most likely become clear what you should do and who with, but don't rush into anything. If you rush you could be entering something that you are totally unprepared for, which could hurt you, and him, even more. So definately just wait. Who knows, maybe the one for you isn't either of those guys..

    Hang in there, sweetie!

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    You seem normal. There is nothing wrong with being normal.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Hmmm.. Thats a tough one. I'm gonna use the old cliche and say that good things come to those who wait, but at the same time if you want something, you should go for it! Maybe when you're least expecting it, someone will come along who is worth your time (and who doesn't want you just for the chance of "getting some"). Whatever you choose to do though, is that when the right one comes along you will just KNOW. It may not be right away, but sooner or later when you get to know the person, you'll just know. =)

    I hope that helps?

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    But then again, one of these guys could be the one. There's always that 50/50 chance haha. I guess you'll just have to be patient and see. If it doesn't happen now, it could happen down the road. I say this a lot: You never what life's gonna bring you. So just relax and enjoy life because you're only young once and it won't last long.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    I just read on your profile that you're 13? Wow. I didn't know you were that young! haha.. at the risk of sounding like a mom, maybe at 13 (and maybe I read it wrong) but you shouldn't be having sex and people shouldn't be taking advantage of you at such a young age. Trust me, wait. When you get older, you'll look back and you'll be like "Man, I was so young, I can't believe I did that.." and so on. Or something to that effect. I'm not saying that you're too young to make decisions. I think you are a very bright and wise girl and it's great that you asked for help like this. Trust me, as time goes on and you become older and more mature, you will most likely meet more mature guys who are actualyl worth your time, not some little boys who are at 'that age' and are obsessed with sex. Know what I mean? lol... sorry I just had to get that out...

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Thats awesome! =)

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Oh yeah.. n if you ever want to talk, email me!