ladies help a guy out here

  • Daniel
    18 years ago

    okay i kno this mite seem strange considering im a guy posting sumthing, but i seriously dont kno where to go. for like the past 3 yrs i've known this girl nd we been like seriously in love. i've dated her on nd off becuz her dad nd my step mom didnt approve. well now i moved nd we are dating again. nd her dad is cool w/ us as is my mom. the only problem is this ... she's a real "flirty" type. always w/ guys, always on the phone w/ sum guy, etc. most of them r older then her or she's knows since like 5 th grade. is it rite for me to feel jealous sumwhat? oh, nd we kinda live almost half hour apart now ... does that have sumthing to do w/ it? i mean we see each other like once a weekend for about 5 hours ... its the best i can do. so yea, please ladies help me out. give me advice on what you think is going on nd if its proper for me to b a lil jealous.
    thanks much,
    danny

  • Ashley
    18 years ago

    Well im the same way with guys and yeah my bf gets very jealous. In a way you have a right to be but u have to trust her if you dont trust her then you will drive her away. Hope that helps alittle thats the best i can do sorry.

  • Daniel
    18 years ago

    no def thanks ..... it helped me.

  • ♥ღ alwayz... forgotten ღ♥
    18 years ago

    same with me,im in a 2 year relationship & we love each other and see each other for sumtimes 2 weeks, but we both talk to other girls and guys on the phone( as friends) we still love each other and trust, but yeah i do stil get very jelous when i know hes just talked ot a girl lol

    ye nyways heehee

    {xXx}...leah...{oOo}

  • Kitty Katia
    18 years ago

    hey, peeps

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    It's fine to be a little jealous. Just don't let it get the best of you.

    My fiancee and I live 6 hours apart...and it's hard because we both get jealous when the other one hangs out with the oppisite sex. But...just don't let it take over you. With being a girl....I can tell you that I'm sure a big part of why she does it....is because she wants to make you jealous...because if you get jealous...then you'll want to be closer to her to make sure that she doesn't do it again....she needs to be careful with it though because she could end up pushing you away....right?

    Tell her how you feel about it. It can't hurt anything really. As long as you let her know that it's ok....you just get jealous...and that you trust her...but you just don't feel right about it.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    its fine beinga lil jealous.. its natural to be.. but yeah dont let it take over you.. n if u trust her which i get feeling u do really... then u should no tht there aint any prob with her being like tht!
    be honest tho when she is with u does she lk at other lads or anything because i reckon if she knows ur getting jealous/wprried she kinda knows tht u do really care for her n its her way of knowing u care bout her!!!
    but i agree with comment above tht she gotta watch it coz she could end up pushin u away!!!
    jus talk to her bout it som girls dnt actually realsie they are upsetting ya n doing it coz flirting come natural to some of us lol

    take care

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    Jealousy is normal.