How do I make him fall in love with me?

  • Amber
    18 years ago

    Thanx for the comments.....but you would have to me and him and the situation to understand what really happend.....thanks u though i greatly appreciate it.

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    mmm I'm not sure I understand the situation.

    1. Okay to start out:
    There's no way to make someone love you, that's out of your hands. If there were some way, I wouldn't call it love, I'd call it infatuation, or liking, or lust, or something else.

    2. Did he say he has feelings for his ex-girlfriend?

    3. Who broke up with who between you and him?

    4. Him not wanting to lose a friend is completely reasonable, even if he doesn't like her romantically.

    5. If you two aren't dating, then what are you holding on to? Your feelings? If you're getting tired of loving him, then let go. If loving him isn't something that you can change, then maybe you're going to want to talk to him.

    6. Are you sure you love him?

    7. Why'd you have sex so damn early?

  • Natalie84
    18 years ago

    I won't even read the thread...but as the others said or just Bob...you can NOT make someone fall in love with you. It is or it isn't...

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    You can't make someone fall in love with you. You can however let go of love, and learn from the pain that it caused you.

    If he is willing to hurt you, the one he claims to love, so that he doesn't lose the one he said he was over, something isn't right there...and you need to just let me go and have some fun with your life.

    You're 15...live it up while you can!

  • Alexa
    18 years ago

    I agree with everyone else. You can't make someone fall in love with you. You might love him but if he doesn't love you and still has feelings for this other girl than you should let them be. If he wants you he with come back to you. If not than it wasn't meant to be

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    Agree with everyone else BUT>>

    WHAT WERE YOU THINKING GIVING UP YOUR VIRGINITY!!
    -_- *sigh* No use, girls these days.

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    Do what your gut instinct tells you to do.