HELP!!!!

ok...my best friend needs help with her boyfriend!!!! she don't know wether to break up with him or not....i think she should cuz he has slapped her and he gets mad easliy, but she don't know what she should do.....what do yall think

THNx
JESSiE

if he has abused her physically then there is no question about it..he should be dumped!! it might be hard for her if she is really attached to him but u gotta remind her that she will find someone better than that and be by her side ALWAYS!

thats a good answer!!!! thank you :D i mean she's broken up with him like 4 times and has gotten bakk together with him every time, but she don't want to hurt him again...she's one of those ppl lol

for one thing how long has this girl bin with him?
i dated a guy for nine months and the last for months of it, he got abusive, controlling.
i ended it,
for your friend, abuse isnt it. no one should have deal with it. ever.
maybe a break?
but i mean if he hit her once, hell do it again.
just like a cheater.
once a cheater always a cheater.
just let her know that hell hit her again, and that there are plenty of guys out there who will want to be with her, this guy isnt her last resort.

i keep on telling her that, she's just one of those ppl who don't like to hurt ppl and i think they've been out for like a month and a half...soooo yeah.

if he slapped her there is only one thing to do... GOODBYE!!!! if she doesnt break up with him and he hits her AGAIN, you need to tell somebody. she might get mad, but once she sees how much you have helped her, shell come around. they should NOT be together if he is abusive... she doesnt deserve someone like that.
hope i helped a little.

-Allanah Rayne (PM me if u need 2 talk)

i was talking to her today and she said that she broke up with him!!!!!! i was rele happy 4 her!!!! she said that when she told him, he said that he was going to break up with her any ways...he is soooo stubborn!!!

^^thanx for helping!!!! :D

xoxox
JESSiE

i made the mistake of marrying an abusive partner and being trapped and abused for three years, i was naive back then and believed his lies i'm sorry it won't happen again he'd say, and it always does, once they do it once chances are theyl do it again. i found the strength to leave and it was the best thing i ever did.
i have a new man in my life now and if he lifted his hand once it would be the last time he'd ever do it, i'd be outta there.

well i have an abusive bf and i cant get out he. hasnt him me yet but he gotten really close. i dont want to leave him i just want him to get help with is anger. Weve been going out for over a year and i cant leave him...doesn any one have advice on how i can convince him to get help

just tell him that if he doesn't controll it then you'll leave, then if he really loves you he will try to stop...hopefully lol

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JESSiE

iv told him that and he doesnt thing he has anger problems...+ when i tell him he has anget issues he gets mad about it and like freaks out...

well then maybe he isn't the one for you then....i mean what would you rather do, ne with one who could snap any minute or someone who will love you and protect you.....i mean i know you love him but you have to think about whats right for you....goodness i sound like Dr. Phil or something lol

haha yea i get what ur saying but most of the time he IS a good guy, i just wish i could find a way to get him help...

phisical abuse isn't acceptible