hes taunting me

okay my boyfriend broke up with me on saturday he called me crying at two in the morning and hes like courtney im just not in love wiht you anymore....i dont love you like a girlfriend...blah blah yeah i knew it was coming so it didnt surprised...but he said that its cause our relationship got to a point where it was based on sex....well he went to a party that night *to mourn* got drunk and slept with some slut....he told me that he was a mess and he needed a few months to get himself together...but then yesterday he said that he doubted that we would get back together...but then ten minutes later hes like if we do cool if not that sucks...and i was talkin to him online yesterday and hes like hey babe...then hes like i have to go take a shower sexy and all this other stuff then at the end hes like i love you and im like bye and hes like as a friend and im like yes of course....but i know theres something more to that...but hes partying alot and hes only 15 he got completly wasted on saturday and its so confusing cause i know he still likes me otherwise he wouldnt be taunting me but i dont know what to do....i havnt gave into his games...ive already done that once and ive learned....what do you think hes thinking?

Well, he's thinking. "Friend with benefits", basically he's trying to hold on to you, because I am assuming you had sex with him before, and since you gave it up to him once, you might do it again. Hopefully you know better, and you will learn from your mistakes and stay away from him. He is trying to get whatever he can, so play his game and make him look like a fool. Just remember, he's worth rubbish. You can find better.

Take care.

thanks....yeah i made my mistake of giving it to him once but im making a goal for myself to not do it again till im married and i think the only reason i was is cause he was "soooo" in love with me and my parents were going through a divorce and he knew i was venreble or however you spell it....im done with him...but im teasing him first

'vulnerable'

Well, that's a very good goal to make. I hope more kids look up to you for that one. Always remember to believe in yourself and your goals, because you are the last line of defence when it comes to criticism. Think of it as a sport, like hockey or soccer. The goalie is always the last line of defence, and the opposing team are negative shots, block them all out. Your defence are your friends, I hope you have good ones. But even if they aren't there, there's always you. I hope that makes sense, I could use other metaphors if you don't understand.

The whole point is, keep that goal. Don't let anyone else bring you down. (geez, I should have said that before)

oh i will...and i know thats all he wants from me...we are hanging out on saturday and hes like i hope you know im still gunna kiss you "to see if theres still something there" and i know we wont do anything cause its at the lake with my mom her boyfriend and my aunt...so i dont know where we could but ive made alot of goals for myself and so far ive kept them...but i still want to know if he still likes me alot cause theres just something telling me he does but he doesnt even know himself anymore and i think thats whats messing us us...but idk i am clueless thanks for your help though im glad that i have support behind those goals...

Some guys like to play with girls minds. Or they do it without even realizing it. To me, I think he is just thinking that no matter what he does, you'll always be waiting for him. Personal, I think you should forget about him. He does not seem like he really cares about you or your feelings. I think you should consider forgetting about him as boyfriend material. You deserve and could get so much better. Good Luck

Tape his picture on a dartboard. Or just tape a dartboard on his face.

Ugh I'm horrible, sorry. I'm not being serious about that, guys just tick me off today.

To me it sounds like he's just being a complete jackass. He is obviously irresponsible, and it sounds to me like he is using you for physical favours. I suggest just letting go of him completely before you get hurt more.

^^ he's giving you good advice you should listen to him!! not about the dartboard...but it sounds like all he wants from you is "friends with benefits"! girls could do so much better than that...you are way worth more so don't fall into his stupid games

lol yeah i spent all today wiht my best friends mom, and she just got out of prison so shes like you dont need that shit wtf play him back show him whos in control, so i didnt talk to him last night and he called this morning 6 times and he left a message and he was like i heard you called me crying last night whats wrong hun and so i called him back and im like i didnt call you and hes like mmmk bye and i hung up then like twenty minutse later he called again and hes like i swore you called i heard the phone ring and im like ryan i didnt call and hes like well tell your bich friend to f off and im like okay and hes like why dont you just f off too and im like okay bye and i was talkin to his best friend and hes like im so confused i dont know anything bout this at all he hasnt told anyone cept that we broke up and i really think im winning but idk i have gotten over him though all guys are jackasses so guys...dont be guys be men lol
thanks for all the advice

Don't get the wrong impression. Not all guys are asses, just those certain guys that don't know how to treat a girl.

thats true not all guys are like that...i used to have that view of guys too! but eventually the right guy will come along, your ex is just immature thats it!

You know whats so funny about this story, even though I understand your perdicament is a tough one? Women are the exact way. Theres so many girls that do this #@#$ to guys, and they kinda learn it from us. When a guy tells us he "loves us" Or however he expects to get sex from you, usually if you really thinks he does, and you dont like him like that, Then usually the girl will hold onto him, even though she doesnt like him, and eventually when he starts to get over him, she likes him.....Its rather confusing but i use to be a bitch like that..And i've done it plenty of times, I use to enjoy capturing the "Hard to get" guys. =) But its somewhat similar to your situation Just backwards. ANyhow, Hes a f@*#(*@ loser if hes drinking at 15 anyways, and You should really find someone better suited, and more apt to love you the way you should be loved. Good luck, And God bless.

"^^ he's giving you good advice you should listen to him!!"

I'm a she lol, but thanks anyways.