which one?

It's pretty simple what hurts more:

Cutting: You are actually mutilating yourself to control your powerful emotions, and to me that is not right. Words can be said every day, and if you take these words to heart, then you have a weak personality and morale...

This is the internet, we do not know you. Are you going to allow a bunch of strangers put you down? Hmm...

Answer that question, and there you have the answer you seek...

I am sorry Megan, but this world is a harsh one, you cannot expect everyone to be good to you. You have to be a survivor rather than a statistic

i dont get it....my ex hated me cutting...but hes the one who abused me to do it...and he drinks and smokes weed...thats what im wonder which is worse smoking weed and drinking or cutting....idk

Megan you know the stupid thing is if you WANTED to...you WOULD. It's not that hard...when you set your mind on changing, change will come.

Words hurt way more and it lasts way longer

Megan: Your language...Please remove it.

I can understand your feeling Megan, but don't you think it is a little pathetic. In your part, you allow people to abuse you. What's next, will you allow people to take physical advantage of you....?

You are someone who paedophiles target. I feel sorry for you. I also feel sorry that children has made it easy for paedophiles to groom. It's truly pathetic...

I wasn't being mean...merely sharing my thoughts. But of course I don't understand...I'm not really alive... :)

Woah. Natalie is right Megan.

My dad works with suicidal people. Or people who tried to kill themselves. And, They don't tell people they will kill themselves. They plan out every second, Every movement of that day they're planning to do it. They make sure everything goes right. Meaning, No one will be around to stop them, Making sure the way they do it will actually work. Anyone who says to someone "I'm going to kill myself" Doesn't really want to do it. But they do need to seek help if the thought has crossed there mind. By telling someone you want to end your life, You want to be stopped. Or why else would you tell them? Hmm. Makes sense?

And as for which hurts more, Words or cutting. Cutting does. I 'used' to cut. And thanks to all these threads in here I stopped. Cutting makes you feel 100 times worse than you would have felt before doing it. And not only are you hurting yourself emotionally and physically, You're hurting everyone around you. And it's the truth. I've lost many friends and even my mum, Because I didn't realise what I was doing. And words do hurt aswell, But not as much as cutting.

`Taleee

Megan, I never said you said 'I'm gonna kill myself' ..I just shared my opinion on OTHER people who say that.

But, No sorry. My thoughts wouldn't change. Because what I said is the truth. Though I didn't say 'Megan, I can't beleive you said to someone you were gonna kill yourself' ..So before you start an arguement, Read what I actually said. What I was saying wasn't aimed at you to start a fight. I was just pointing my opinion on suicide out.

`Taleee

I dunno your pathetic threads are pretty painful...

Agreed...

Words.

definetly words

What's with all these threads about you? Why can't you just make one? And another thing, from what i've read in your other threads, all I have to say is, fix your attitude. You post here and then complain when you don't get the answer you wish to hear. For once can't you be optimistic?

To answer this thread, words hurt yes, only because they remain in you head. Only because you think about the words constantly. Only because you dwell on the words being said, and don't move on and forgive. Cutting in my opinion hurts more. It may ease you pain for a while but it'll only create more. Plus the scars that remain are always a reminder which brings more pain.

--Angie xoxo