WHAT DO I DO!????

  • In Joy And Sorrow
    18 years ago

    ive been friends with this girl for quite some time now, we grew closer and closer, until the day we both started having stronger feelings for each other. The other night we hooked up, that was the start of a whole contraversial argument with me and her friends. The next day i told her how i felt about her, however her friends already knew what happened and warned her not to go out with me, i have no idea why(really no idea), and now she is listening to her friends over me. i really like this girl and want her so bad but atm i cant even talk to her when her friends are around. although one of her friends came to me today saying she really really likes me and misses my company, but im still skeptical on whether to pursue or turn and run?

    advice anyone

  • Sunflower
    18 years ago

    GO FOR IT!!! If you really like this girl, you should give it a shot. It may be difficult because of her friends, but you should try. Her friends don't seem that great, if they make her stay away from you. If they were good friends they would see how much she likes you, and wouldn't get in the way. If you show that you care, and try hard enough, she willl see that, and will respect that deeply in you. Give it a shot. Good Luck.

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    use the friend that talked to you to send her a message without her other friends knowing try to find out (from the same friend) why they have sumthing against you

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    If this girls like you, then you should talk to her. Find out why her friends think you're a bad guy. Don't give up.

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    Aw, This is cute. Don't give up man. My friends used to do that for me, They'd scare the boy away only to see if he'd still stick around and try. So try and talk to this girl you like, And keep trying.

    `Taleee. xx.

  • Bloomed Rose
    18 years ago

    why worry about what her friends think. If you REALLY like her, or maybe you're in love, i think that it really shouldn't matter what her friends think, don't you? And hey, you must be doing good anyway if she REALLY likes you! Hey, don't give up, ok? anything can happen if you just let it without any other worry or care about the rest of the world and their opinions! Go ahead and GO FOR IT!

    Bloomed Rose

  • Sean Allen
    18 years ago

    btw, something I would never say to her is:

    "Hey, it's either your friends, or me! Who do you pick?"

    Choices like that aren't ones that you should force someone you care about to make. If she decides that it is necessary to make a choice like that, she'll make it.

    **edit**
    However, I don't think you should turn and run. Do your best to get her.

  • In Joy And Sorrow
    18 years ago

    i would neva make anyone have to make a choice like that. things r starting to look up, she's realised how much she does like me, she actually told her friends to get F***ed i was so taken aback by that. thatnx guys i didnt give up

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    wow i love these happy endings like this... till of course you screw up and we get to help you again but lets hope that doesn't happen

  • In Joy And Sorrow
    18 years ago

    nah this time i feel it!!! im not letting go of this one till the end! this is the happiest ending eva!!