I'm Confused..

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    Ookay, me and my ex started going back out (weak, I know) after long talks w/ him, deliberations w/ myself, and a month of being broke up. (We broke up because I cheated on him and he went and did something violent to the guy I cheated on him with, long story) and well, it just seems like it's the same kind of thing again.
    He spends all his time talking to his "friends" on the phone (whom are all girls) and whenever we're together, he always seems so distracted and he never really talks to me. He's always just looking around and saying hi to people I know while I sit there waiting for him to talk to me.
    We never used to spend all that much time together at school because I was kind of busy, but now that school activities are dying down, I have more free time with him.
    I think he's taking advantage of the fact that I came back, because when I try to talk to him about how I'm feeling, he just denies everything that he's doing. He doesn't even listen.
    I don't know what to do, 'cause sometimes it seems like he likes someone else, or doesn't want to spend time with me anymore.
    Help, please?

    thaanks.

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    ^ i agree leave him... but don't doing it by making out with another guy... your boyfriend sounds just wee bit El Whacko

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    I don't know, my last topic was about when we broke up.
    He was suicidal, but even if we were broken up, I still cared for him deeply.
    I don't know ... it's true I don't need the drama but I like to give second chances because I like to see the best in people..
    Should I give it a shot, or just give up ?

    EDIT. btw, thanks for the advice :)

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    Haha, alright cool.
    Thanks.

  • xxDevangelxx
    18 years ago

    He obviously still likes you otherwise he wouldnt have got back with you...but it must be hard putting stuff behind and its probably still really bothering him so he will find it hard to be the same around you. The answer is either getting through it and trusting eachother again, or breaking it off. Just remember it will probably never be the same...not nice i know! Ive been through something similar and in the end it just got too much for us both and we couldnt stop arguing so we broke it off. Just think about it, its your decision in the end, hope it goes well whatever happens xx

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    ~ If you cared as much about him as you think that you do, then you wouldn't have cheated on him. I'd say that you are thinking with your head instead of your heart. Your head keeps reminding you of the good times that you spent with him, but your heart knows it's not right....

    I think that as much as you want it to work out between the two of you, it just simply can't. Whatever you decide to do, make sure it's the right thing. Listen to your heart, and it will lead you in the right direction. God Bless

  • *Guerita*
    18 years ago

    woow that happens with me too sumttimes he can be soo distracted then oo so sweat..i say yeah u cheated ppl make mistakes nd if u regret it he will notice is not like u go somewere thinking ima cheat on my man but sumttiems ur juz to stupid to thinkor u thnk u dont love them nd when u fucked things up nd u wanna try and change them u realise how much u love that person