i feel alone....

  • hidden writer
    18 years ago

    i have a few close friends who i get on with really well but for sum reason i still feel lonley....i dont no y i feel like this... got any ideas?????? plz help
    kat :-(

  • Sunflower
    18 years ago

    I think everyone goes through that. I do. I dropped out of school a year and 1/2 ago, and have been home 6/7 days a week. I have been searching for a job in that time, finally JUST got one, so I won't be stuck home anymore. Anyways, I went through loneliness because of that. But, eventually I pulled myself together and realize I was being pathetic. So what I was home all the time. Make myself useful. So, I did that things that had to be done. Plus, some people and lonely because they have nothing better to do, and just start to feel sorry for themselves. EX. MY younger sis. She is so depressing. Nothing has ever hurt her, mentally or physical and because her life is so perfect, she cries because she has nothing to do. She does not know what pain and loneliness is. She has friends, family, clean house, loving family, evreything. People just seem to go through stages like that. That is just my opinion though.

  • Ashes of a Black Rose aka Night Child
    18 years ago

    yeah, i only have two really good friends, and then a boyfriend. i get lonely too. i think the best thing is to grow in your relationships with your current friends, strengthen them ,you know? and then get yourself out in the world, got to a club or something, and get to know someone. dont be afraid to be who you really are out there either, because no one knows you. meet someone interesting that respects who you are, someone you can just tell would make a great friend, and go for it! get their numbers, hang out. hmm, maybe i should take some of my own advice, eh? lol.

    and if you ever need anyone to talk to, annd nobody else is around, i'm here to listen. dont be afraid to mail me. blonde_rocker@earthlink.net
    a reply is promised

  • hidden writer
    18 years ago

    thanx i think i will take sum advice... you no.. get on with my life.. lol
    any more advice/ friends is always nice.. dont hesitate to write....

  • Natalie
    18 years ago

    I only have a few really close friends now. Cause I've left school. But if you ever need to talk. I'll be your mate. Just send me a private message or something. =)

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Be thankful you have close friends.

  • XxXWhisPerInDaStarsXxX
    18 years ago

    I know how you feel huni, i have the same problem! i cant say i know how to spoke the feeling, its somthing you need to figure out on ur own.....altho i have tried for ages yet i still don't have answers! But dont make the mistake of pushing your close friends away because no matter how alone you feel they still help just knowing they are and always willing to help! hope you feel betta soon and take care of yourself xx love always xxxx

  • johnnys_princess
    18 years ago

    i could count the amount of true loyal friends i have on one hand