Scared. Confused. Help!

Me and my boyfriend had been together for a little over a year when he broke up with me a few weeks ago :( I didn't see it coming what so ever, so I was very shocked. I still love him like nothing has happened. I don't want to move on, I've always had feelings towards him and there's no way that I tell him that. I wrote him a letter and gave that to him, that's making the situation a bit better for the moment, at least now he knows what's going through my mind and how I've taken everything. I have no idea what to do now though. I can't lose him again :(

You need to talk to him and find out what went wrong. Going out for a year and then breaking up over nothing, well there has to be something more to it. No one breaks up with a person after dating a year and doesn't give an explanation. Talk to him, find out why he broke up with you, and assess the problem accordingly.

Take care.

I would highly suggest, however, that you keep in mind that the ending of a relationship doesn't require the consent of both parties. Even after finding out the reason why he broke up with you, you should remember that if it is his final decision on the topic, then you're better off moving on.

People sometimes get back together after breaking up, and sometimes that is perfectly fine. But you just need to be prepared for the possibility that that won't be an option.

Aw. That kinda reminded me of my ex. Dylan. We were going out for ages, And then we broke up. And, Then he wanted me back just as I was about to move. {I was living with my mum then} But, I had to move. I had no choice. But just try and ask him why, But like Sean said. Even after he tells you the reason, You're gonna have to accept it. Hope all goes well for you =)

`Taleee. xx.

That's true Sean,

But some people like to fight for what they believe in, rather than giving up. If she talked to him and found out why he broke up with him, then maybe he can reconsider. It might be a small problem he had, but never talked to her about it. Giving up just doesn't seem like a pretty answer. Having a reason is better than not knowing, in my opinion.

Sometimes people just need time to gather their thoughts before that can finally be with the same person. They also go through personal stuff and might need space to rethink if it's what they really want. But if he comes back to you then maybe it is really what he wants and consdier to work out his other things. But I really don't know what the situation is, but maybe he needs space to rethink thoughts. But if he doesn't come back after so long I would just move on, because he might not be coming back. I hope everything works out.
Take Care
~DyingBlackRose~

Darien, I agree with you.

That doesn't change the fact that if it doesn't work out, and if she gets his reason and he still doesn't want to start anything again, the faster you get on the 'moving-on' bandwagon, the sooner it gets done.